Aries men are infamous when it comes to cheating and being unfaithful. Whilst it would be an unfair and negative stereotype to suggest that all Aries men are love cheats there does seem to be something that Aries men struggle with when it comes to remaining faithful.
The Aries man is a very interesting astrological creature with many positive and negative traits. On the one hand, he attracts a lot of women because he is able to make up his mind quickly. Of course, chances are good that the decision is completely wrong but that is really beside the point.
Aries men tend to attract females of a certain type. There are many females that feel that their lives don’t have direction. They feel their lives don’t really have a particular shape or particular form. They’re looking for direction in life. They’re looking to be told what to do.
Of course, they get turned off by guys who are too obvious about it, they get turned off by guys who are too controlling, and they get turned off by guys that just want to use them.
Many women are smart enough to stay away from guys that are really bad for them. However, they are suckers for guys who seem to be able to take all the complexities and all the confusions of life and able to make a quick and firm decision.
They especially admire guys who are able to make a decision and keep going regardless of the consequences. This is why the Aries man can be quite attractive to women. Let’s face it: men tend to be very graphic. They size up women based on appearance.
Women, on the other hand, tend to be multidimensional in sizing up a man. If a man is not necessarily handsome but has other redeeming qualities, women are more likely to give that person the benefit of the doubt. Men, on the other hand, tend to focus mostly on looks.
Due to the fact that the Aries men have this natural physical attraction from females, there’s no shortage of opportunities for him to go astray. Things are especially dangerous for the Aries man’s love partners because the Aries man is often driven to look hard and be decisive due to deep insecurity. He’s always looking for validation. This is not surprising.
Why?
The horoscope sign of the Aries man is actually based on sheep. In the grand hierarchy of animals, sheep are not exactly the kind of animals that instill admiration and respect. Sheep are often dismissed as these very meek, docile, weak and quiet animals that actually don’t make any noise when you slaughter them. How weak can you be? In fact, one of the biggest insults you can call somebody is to call them sheep.
You’re basically saying that they don’t really make up their minds, they don’t really make their own decisions, and they just follow along. They’re followers. The Aries is a rebellion against that portrayal of the sheep.
The Aries plays up his ability to make a decision, the Aries plays up his ability to be brash. The reason for this is the need for validation because of the fact that an Aries is a male sheep. It’s basically just a sheep with horns. This is why it is not surprising that whenever you have a group of people and you have a certain type of Aries man, it’s always the Aries man who’s stirring up trouble, making decisions for the group and really trying to look bigger than he really is. This is especially true when it comes to Aries men born on the Aries Taurus cusp.
If you put these two traits of the Aries man together then there can be serious issues in terms of fidelity.
If you are a woman in a relationship with an Aries man, here are five tips to help you catch your man being unfaithful:
Aries Men Have a Damsel-In-Distress Complex
Aries guys are always looking for opportunities to prove their bravery, their decisiveness and their value as men. Well, the concept of “value” of course in this particular context tends to be warped and very distorted. It’s almost like a cartoon.
Aries guys like to look at their value as men as being able to save females. They’re either standing up to bullies or they’re taking women out of harsh situations. If you know a female in your circle of friends or social circles who is going through some tough relationship issues or is depressed or is in some sort of trouble, you need to keep an eye on your man and that woman, especially if we are talking about an Aries and Libra match up.
Aries guys always feel that they have to put on a cape and save a damsel in distress. This can lead to all sorts of temptations and this can lead to infidelity.
A Cheating Aries Man Can Be Tricked Into Bragging About Attractions
One thing you can use to your advantage when trying to investigate whether your Aries man is being unfaithful is to use his ego against him.
The Aries ego is the Aries man’s kryptonite. He really cannot help but brag. He cannot help but drop some hints because it feeds his ego, it strokes his sense of pride. So you can lay some leading questions regarding other women, other romantic opportunities and you would not be disappointed if your cheating Aries partner falls for the bait.
However, if your Aries man is faithful, he really wouldn’t brag because there’s nothing to brag about. He would brag about something else usually about the amount of money he is making or the opportunities that are about to open up so he can make more money.
Look For Changes in Temperament
One key giveaway that your Aries man is being unfaithful is when his temperament changes. You have to understand that the Aries guy is either looking for an opportunity to rise and shine and be the center of attention or he’s undermining other people. He can be a hater; he can be a back stabber. Look out for this in 2016.
The reason he’s doing this is not because he hates the person he’s talking trash about. He’s doing this because he’s trying to knock other people down so his short stature can look a little bit taller. That’s just the way it is with Aries men.
So if this behavior pattern changes all of sudden and he starts praising people and starts building people up, then you know there’s something fishy going on. You might want to use his ego against him to dig even further.
Pick Out a Female Your Aries Partner Keeps Talking About
If your Aries partner constantly was talking about a female whether in a negative light or a positive light, keep your eye on her. Either she is the focus of your Aries man’s attentions or somebody in her circle. Regardless, if he keeps talking about a particular female there might be something there. After all when there is smoke, there is usually fire.
Sort Through Your Aries Man’s Female Friends
If your Aries man is behaving normally this doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s being faithful. This might mean he’s just putting up a good act and really keeping his secrets well-hidden. If things seem to calm and too perfect, you might have occasion to worry. What you need to do is sort through your Aries man’s female friends and look for patterns.
Are there any changes? Have there been any break ups?
Is somebody going through depression or in some sort of financial or physical trouble?
Pay attention to the state of his female friends. You have to understand that your Aries man always wants to become or at least be perceived as the hero of any situation. This is why he will always be a sucker for the damsel in distress act.
Nip things in the bud by making it clear to your Aries man’s female friends that he is off limits.
Regardless, by looking through the patterns of behavior of his female friends, you might be able to see some clues that might lead you to conclude infidelity.
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3 replies on “Five Tips to Catch an Unfaithful Aries Man”
OngoingSky88 said on
I’m a Libra woman engaged to an Aries man. I can relate to the infidelity matter. It’s a sad type of fun but my Aries and I really do still have some growing to do as a couple. If I weren’t always one step ahead of him intellectually he would definitely cross some lines. Now that’s not to say he is a bad guy or a blatant cheater. But he really does get carried away with his archetype as “The Hero”. Some examples. One of his companions is a Leo woman. They are the most flirtatious two I’ve ever seen. He talks about her a lot. Mostly high praises. Then there is his female supervisor. They spend a lot of time together, mostly for work but his words for her are a mix of praise and gossip. Now another Leo woman and a Taurus woman have stepped on the scene and as usual he is going above and beyond to impress and flirt and be “The Hero”. I’m not insecure. Most women I’m sure would feel jealous or threatened by this. But I am actually a pretty cool and collected Libra lady. We have established that cheating is out of the question (physical anyway). I feel that to truly be with an Aries is to be willing to accept the inevitable issues that come from their flaw of being insecure. Honestly, I am just not that easy to impress. My Aries fiancé works hard to impress me but sometimes I just don’t give him the approval that he wants so he seeks it elsewhere. His female Leo companions adore him. He is the Aries/Taurus cusp. The female Taurus interests him with her stubborn charm. The supervisor, not sure what sign she is but she is a supervisor over him so of course he feels he has to impress her. Maybe one day I can ease up on my nonchalant attitude. Maybe one day my Aries will realize that my approval is all he needs because when he does break through to me I’m literally impressed for days on end.
OngoingSky88 said on
Now actually I think that a way to avoid Aries man infidelity is to be their friend first. As a friend my Aries and I were able to connect on a deeper level, and that eventually paved a way for other things. As a friend he shared things with me that he would NEVER have shared had he saw me as just a damsel in distress. We knew each other well enough to know our likes and dislikes. We went into a relationship knowing what to expect. Or rather him knowing what I would not tolerate. That said he does indeed like to push his limit. That’s just the way it is with Aries. Now that said I love my Aires man very much. He is very attentive and caring towards me. He is flirtatious…but so am I sometimes. The issue is (according to him) it’s a little more dangerous when I do it. As a Libra of course I know that is utter B.S. and that the truth is he’s just easily jealous. But overall once you understand the Aries then you can decide if you want a relationship with them. They are certainly on the more raw side of the zodiac scale so a relationship will take some work but if you are determined or in my case really in love then you’ll find that an Aries man is definitely worthwhile.
The Wolf said on
Well I’m an Aries man and I find this article a little incorrect at some points. Cheating, it’s not something I would want to do ever. But, I have a very sensitive internal world, I don’t understand it, it drives me crazy and makes me feel alone. That same world is very dumb and can and will find strong emotions which can be caused by a female I idealize.
It can lead to some very stupid situations. Like, while having a good girlfriend and all of the sudden talking to a girl, which seems to you like the most beautiful creature you’ve ever met, instant feeling of love and bang your head to the wall if you like, nothing helps.
I’m generally a strong person and can set emotions aside for a better good. But we are miserable romantics and if we feel like we might have just found the real one, logic gets in our way. Right now I’m going through a phaze like this, I’m gonna try and think all this through and win it as an internal battle, without actually doing anything with the girl I met, besides talking. Cheating? Technically no, but from emotional standpoint I feel bad about myself and are willing to do anything to fix it
Don’t know about the sheep though, sounds more like you met some shitty Aries guy. I’ve quieted that loud, arrogant side, because I don’t like it. But the biggest pattern for a sheep for me is blindly following the crowd and being incredibly dumb, while the second is true when we take something in our heads. The following part is something I will rebel against till my last breath.
And backstabbing? Come on, we are naturally raw and direct, we are anything but backstabbers.