Will Sagittarius find love in 2022? If you are a Sagittarius man or woman and you are single in 2022, you are probably thinking the year is almost done and it seems that you still have not found the right person. However take my advice Sagittarius – do not give up hope!
The good news is that you are more adaptable than other signs of the horoscope when it comes to love partners. You do not have impossible standards, you do not have impossible principles and conditions that you put on yourself before you fall in love. That is the good news.
It means that you only need to be in the right setting with a fairly broad range of people, for you to see people you could have a love relationship with. This is a gift that you have that some signs of the horoscope do not have. This is a blessing. Keep that in mind when considering whether you will find love in 2022.
Here are the four major issues that you need to deal with in this year, and really all other years, if you are a Sagittarius looking for love.
Once you are able to resolve these issues, and come up with answers that make sense to you, you can move on and find that rewarding romantic relationship that you have been looking for.
The Sagittarius Need for Stability in Love
There are two kinds of Sagittarius. There are Sagittarius signs that instinctively find equilibrium. In other words, you throw them into any type of stressful situation and they will almost automatically look at the situation and situate themselves emotionally, physically and relationally so that they either come out ahead or, at the very least, they are at peace with that particular situation.
This is a great skill to have; many people do not have this. This gives you a lot of stability.
On the other hand, there are Sagittarius signs that tend to go with one extreme or the other. These Sagittarius cannot live with equilibrium.
Things have to either be weighed one way of the other. Regardless of what type of Sagittarius you are, it is obvious that high up on your hierarchy of needs is the need for stability.
As a result, you probably have come up with coping mechanisms where you just focus so much on stability that you would pretty much adapt to any type of situation.
This is a big challenge.
Why?
Love is spontaneous. Love happens. It is not pre-planned. It does not come in a box that you just have to add hot water. It happens.
It is like a very magical thing that often turns on situations, often turns on a special moment in your life’s history where it happens once in your life.
This is why there is a lot of truth to the saying that you can really only truly fall in love with the right person once in your life.
Everything else really is just an accommodation. Everything else really is just an adaptation. I’m not knocking these later scenarios, I’m not saying that they are in any way less real or less authentic, but from a purely fulfilling perspective, you really only have one shot at true love in your life.
You really need to move past this need for stability to put everything on the line for the right person. This, of course, takes commitment.
This definitely takes clarity, and that is the biggest challenge for the typical Sagittarius.
If you are a typical Sagittarius, you are always weighing things and you are always trying to find this magical balance. As a result, it is very easy to see that window of opportunity close.
Sagittarius Focusses On Appearances
Another key conflict in the Sagittarius personality when it comes to love, it is the interplay between appearances and emotional authenticity. People fall in love with people who are emotionally authentic.
At the very least, they think that they are emotionally authentic. People usually do not intentionally fall in love with somebody they know to be a fake.
It does not work that way.
Unfortunately, Sagittarius are so good with surface appearances and getting along with everybody that in many cases Sagittarius lose sight of their own personalities.
If you are a typical Sagittarius who always weighs things and situations on your mind, you know exactly what this means.
The big tragedy is that you tend to end up in romantic situations where you should have not entered in the first place.
While they are fun and they lead to a certain degree of depth, they cannot go any deeper. For a truly fulfilling emotional life, whether in the form of romance or spiritual fulfilment, this requires authenticity, knowing and challenging yourself.
This requires really knowing who you are, what you want to be, what your expectations are and what your core values are. This, of course, requires commitment. This requires arriving at a decision and not compromising.
If you are a typical Sagittarius, these are precisely the things that you have a tough time doing. So, if you are having a tough time finding real love, or at the very least fulfilling love, maybe this is the issue.
The issue is your tendency to let things remain superficial versus the need for deep emotional authenticity.
Do Not Be Afraid To Let Your Hair Down
A Sagittarius has never died being true to her or himself.
A Sagittarius has never been cast out by friends or family because the Sagittarius is completely honest. You have to really let your hair down and really take more risks on an emotional level as to what you want, what you expect, and what you need out of life.
While there is a lot of value in getting along with other people, at the end of the game it is your life. At the end of the day, it is your happiness that really matters.
Living your life for the crowd can only take you so far. At the very least, you would feel like you are an actor, forced to play a role on somebody else’s movie. Instead, live your own movie. Live your own life.
This means do not be afraid to let your hair down and be clear as to what you expect of your partner in a love relationship.
Do not be afraid to be clear as to what you want in return when you are in an emotional partnership with somebody. This requires authenticity.
This requires work. Unfortunately, Sagittarius does have a reputation for being emotionally lazy.
This is one of those times where hard work, emotionally speaking, is definitely needed.
You Are More Likable When You Are Keeping It Real
Part of the reason why the typical Sagittarius develops a Sagittarius personality of getting along and focusing on the middle and trying to achieve some form of equilibrium is that, at the end of the day you want to be likable.
You care about other people’s validation. What other people think matters a lot to you. The problem is, if you are looking for love, you have to keep it real. You have to focus more on what you want and what is real to you.
This is not in your nature because you are easy going, but it is definitely worth it. The reasons why your relationships remain shallow and superficial are because you are not keeping it real. Authenticity is crucial to taking any relationship to a deeper level.
You deserve love, but you have to work for it and the work that you need to do, all comes from within. You have to first rearrange your emotional furniture properly, for the right person to come in and make himself or herself feel at home.
Take these words of advice Sagittarius, reflect on them and then realise that you have an amazing opportunity to add love to your life in 2022.
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