When it comes to the Gemini man in love things can get really complicated (especially between Gemini and Aries). This special analysis reveals my main thoughts and insights into the personality and characteristics of the Gemini man when he is in love.
If you are in a relationship with a Gemini man you can use this to better understand your partner. If you are considering a relationship with a Gemini man and are wondering what the Gemini man in love is really like then you will find this special report useful too.
Gemini Men in Love and Romance
Normally Gemini guys are very easy to understand. They are very easy to become friends with. This should not be a surprise.
Gemini male personalities, after all, are emotional chameleons. They change colors and shape depending who they are talking to. If you are a very optimistic person, guess what, the Gemini guy in front of you is going to be optimistic too!
If you look at the world in rose-colored glasses, and you tend to be dreamy, guess what, that Gemini guy talking to you is going to look at the world the same way.
Gemini men are mirrors. They are excellent at mirroring what they are hearing and what others are saying. This is especially true when the Gemini man is in love or attracted to a particular person.
This behaviour comforts many people and some people also find it highly attractive.
Unfortunately, there are certain people that think this is not a good thing. There are people that think that Gemini men are manipulative or are lying. Why? They look at mirroring as a bad thing.
Some Virgos tend to think like this and in my experience you will often find difficulties in relationships between Gemini men and Virgo women. Virgos fortunately are in the minority. Why? They are perfectionist. They are idealist, and they tend to look at the world in terms of perfect concepts. In their world, there is no space for emotional mirroring.
For most of us normal mortals, however, there is something comforting about the mirroring that Gemini men are good at. Here are some things to know about the Gemini men when it comes to love and romance.
Decoding the Gemini Man in Love
As mentioned earlier, Gemini men tend to be good at mirroring. This can give you some sort of false impression. This can give you an impression that this guy whom you are talking to is exactly like you. This guy is on your corner. This guy is on your side.
All of a sudden however, certain things happen, and you see the different aspects of the Gemini male personality that doesn’t match yours.
It is easy at this point in time to become depressed to feel cheated, to feel lied to, and to feel betrayed. If you feel those things, you need to be honest and realize that you basically just did it to yourself.
The reality is that Gemini men when in love, like other men have different aspects to their personalities. They are complete people. They are so good at mirroring because that’s how they establish emotional connections, but that doesn’t free you from the responsibility of getting to know them.
That is the hard part people have to understand about love, romance and the Gemini man. It’s not that they are hard to know, it is because people think that they know them already because the Gemini man is such a good mirror that they don’t bother to really know the Gemini man.
That is where the problem begins and it is something you need to be aware of when considering a relationship with a man born under Gemini.
Variety is the Spice of Life for Gemini in Love
This is the motto of the Gemini man. They don’t like boredom. They don’t like being stuck in a rut. They don’t like doing the same thing again and again and again. This can happen in a match between Gemini and Libra and it can cause all sorts of problems for compatibility between these two signs.
This doesn’t necessarily mean that they don’t want to settle down and get married and have kids. This doesn’t necessarily mean that they don’t want to buy a home, have two cars in the garage, provide for their family and be responsible.
What this does mean is that even though they are doing fairly regular things and living a fairly conventional lifestyle, there has to be enough variation and enough spiciness in what they are doing, or else they just lose interest. The Gemini man demands excitement as much as love in a relationship.
This drives many people crazy about the Gemini man. They think that the Gemini man is irresponsible. It’s not uncommon for a Gemini man to do something for twenty years and all of a sudden leave. It’s not uncommon for Gemini man to stay married for thirty years and get divorced and then get a twenty-year-old girlfriend.
If you didn’t see this coming, once again, it’s your fault. Why? That’s their motto. Variety is the spice of life. Mix it up a bit. Give them something to get excited about. The number-one thing they get excited about is variety. Take my advice to heart because it applies to people just starting a relationship with a Gemini man as much as it does to people who are in long term relationships with Gemini.
Gemini Men Have a Lot of Love to Give
Since Gemini men are such good emotional mirrors, it only takes a shared experience for most people to fall in love with a Gemini. There is some sort of sad yet curiously funny irony to all of this.
If you are in a stressful situation, for example, you are in college, and your professor has put you in small three or four-person groups to write a paper together, this shared experience can lead to you falling in love with a Gemini man because he is such a powerful and reflective personality.
However, the reality is that you fell in love with yourself. Why? The Gemini guy is just mirroring your personality, your fears, your hopes, your dreams and your aspirations.
He’s just mirroring along. You think that it’s him that you are falling in love with, but in reality, you are falling in love with yourself.
That’s how powerful the concept of shared experience is. This is why many people find it easy to fall in love with a Gemini man.
Unfortunately, once they figure out that this is just part of mirroring, many fall out of love. This doesn’t have to be the case. The better way to go about things is to know the Gemini guy first outside of the mirroring.
Once you truly know and understand how the Gemini guy acts in love, then you can decide whether to fall in love or not on your terms.
What drives people crazy about the Gemini man is they end up really falling in love with themselves and not with the Gemini man. If you really think hard about it, it’s unfair to the Gemini guy because, for the most part, Gemini men don’t do this deliberately. They don’t intend to emotionally lie to people or manipulate them. It’s just how their personality is in the majority of cases.
Spontaneity is the Key to Gemini in Love
Whether you’ve been in a romantic relationship with a Gemini man for one year, two months or thirty years, if you want to maintain your relationship, you only need to do one thing.
Be spontaneous. That’s right. Let your hair down. Let life take you where it needs to take you. Let go every once in a while.
I know this is very hard especially if you are a Capricorn or a Taurus in a relationship with a Gemini man, but you really do need to let go.
If you are a Leo matched with a Gemini man, for example, you need to let go and forgive.
Spontaneity and letting each day happen is the key to not just entertaining the Gemini man in your life but maintaining your relationship. The worst thing you can do is to force your Gemini man to live the way you want that person to live.
Out of love, that person will probably follow you. Maybe for a year, ten years, thirty years, but eventually the Gemini will snap and that other side of himself will come to the surface and leave you. Never ever force a Gemini man to live in a forced routine.
It’s not going to end nicely (especially if the Gemini man is matched with the Gemini woman and her extreme personality type!)
There’s never a Dull Moment When Gemini is in Love
One of the most endearing things about the Gemini man in addition to being emotionally nurturing due to his superb emotional mirroring skills is his love for fun. There is never a dull moment with a Gemini man when it comes to funny songs, funny jokes interesting stories.
This is the Gemini man telling you that he is happy and content in the relationship and you should embrace his fun side.
There is always something interesting with the Gemini man. Even with very shy Gemini guys who don’t usually like to sing out loud or share funny stories. If you push them hard enough, they will share an interesting side of their personality that you may have never seen. If you do see this side coming out you can be sure that your relationship is secure because your Gemini man is in love with you. In my experience this bodes well for long term romance and overall compatibility.
Just remember that there’s never a dull moment with a Gemini man. That’s what makes them such great love partners. After all, and as the saying goes – variety really is the spice of life.
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1 reply on “Understanding the Gemini Man in Love”
Shane Flounders said on
As a Gemini Man this is the most positive outlook I’ve ever read about us. Good Job!