I really hate the question of, “Are (insert horoscope sign here) trustworthy?” the problem with such questions is they try to pigeonhole people based on the general directions in their life.
Well, the horoscope can predict, to a very high degree of accuracy, the general direction of most people’s lives. These are, at the end of the day, just general directions.
Even though we share 98% of our DNA with chimpanzees, we obviously don’t act like chimpanzees. That 2% difference produces a huge amount of practical differences.
In the same way, the differences that a personal choice and free will produces in a person’s life cannot be ignored. While horoscopes can produce 80% of what you do and 80% of what you think, never underestimate the power of that 20%.
This is very important when trying to answer the question of, “Are Sagittarius men trustworthy?”
You have to understand that trustworthiness is a two-way street. This question is as much a judgement of the person being evaluated as well as the person doing the evaluation.
With that out of the way, here are some general guidance that will help you answer the question of, “Are Sagittarius men trustworthy?”
Sagittarius Men Can Be Shallow If You Let Them
If you’re in a relationship with a Sagittarius man, you probably already know this. Sagittarius men get along with people so well that it’s very easy for them to end up in very shallow relationships.
Why? They can jump from one relationship to the other.
They don’t have any difficulties getting women to say yes to them. They don’t have any difficulties getting women to become their partners if that’s all they want, or to become their long term partners if that’s what they want too.
They have a lot of choices. This is why, if left to their own devices, your relationship with Sagittarius men can be very shallow. You can just be that Saturday girl or Friday girl they go to on Saturday or Friday nights.
However, if you want something deeper, you have to put your foot down. You have to demand it from them, and guess what? They can give you what you’re looking for.
The reality is that Sagittarius men are also looking for emotional fulfilment, just like everybody else. However, it’s too easy for them to remain stuck at a shallow level if you don’t challenge them, a common problem that I often see in Sagittarius and Virgo relationships.
Understanding Sagittarius Gregariousness
The main reason why Sagittarius people seem like they have this natural gift for getting along with everybody in almost all circumstances is because they like to please people. In most cases, this is a healthy thing. In most cases, this comes from a normal and neutral place.
However, in the case of many Sagittarius men, this is due to a deep sense of insecurity. Someway, somehow, they feel that they are not complete. Someway, somehow, there’s some sort of past wound, or past negative experience that essentially drives them to be a crowd pleaser or to be the life of the party.
This is not necessarily a bad thing. What makes this bad is if the person is not fully aware of what drives him to act this way.
Socrates said, “An unexamined life is a life not worth living.” In the same way, a person who doesn’t fully examine himself on a psychological, spiritual, and emotional basis is basically setting himself up for an unfulfilled and frustrating life.
Sagittarius people who don’t really see or understand where their need to please crowds comes from can live unfulfilled lives. This extends to their emotional life, their spiritual life, and definitely their relationships.
Sagittarius Men Love a Crowd
This flows naturally from what I’ve been saying earlier. There are certain horoscope signs that perform better without a crowd. It gives them emotional depth; it gives them emotional authenticity.
The Sagittarius man, on the other hand, needs a crowd. It’s some sort of emotional oxygen to him. You have to keep this in mind.
Trust Is All About Boundaries
When answering the question of, “Are Sagittarius men trustworthy?” you have to always go back to this fact.
Trust is all about setting boundaries. Trust is all about the boundaries that you see, as well as the boundaries that truly exist in your relationship.
If you lose sight of this fact, all sorts of problems can happen. You end up going about your business and your relationship where there seems to be neither guidance nor understanding. As a result, you end up stepping on each other’s toes a lot.
Trust Is All About Expectations
If you set the right boundaries in your relationship, then you can allow yourself to feel entitled to certain expectations. The worst thing that you can do to the Sagittarius man in your life is for you to set your expectations without setting boundaries.
As a result, you end up feeling that he is a backstabber, or a cheat, or unfaithful. But that’s really unfair to him, because you never set the boundaries in the first place. You have to understand, expectations can only arise from boundaries, not the other way around.
Get Your Sagittarius Man on the Same Page before Deciding To Trust Him Fully
If you get hurt with a Sagittarius man, nine time out of ten, it’s your fault. Why? You had the wrong expectations; you define the relationship the wrong way; or you basically just didn’t take the time, effort, and energy to truly know your Sagittarius male partner.
Whose fault is that? It’s really unfair to hold people to standards that they never subscribed to in the first place. In many cases, the partners of Sagittarius men hold their unfaithful Sagittarius men to standards that their Sagittarius men are not even aware of.
You have to remember that the Sagittarius man has an easy time getting in and out of relationships. You have to challenge him so that he knows the boundaries.
And these boundaries must be set by both of you together. This cannot be one-sided boundaries.
Otherwise, all sorts of problems can happen.
The worst part of it all is that these problems are completely predictable.
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