If you’re born under the symbol of the crab, 2022 will be quite an interesting year for you when it comes to your search for love.
Keep in mind that every person has the capacity to find love if they know how to look in the right places and most importantly, to look at the right times.
Love after all is situational. It is not this preset set in stone reality that you only need to claim.
While we all have the capacity to find love, we have to give ourselves permission to find ourselves in the right situation to enjoy romance in our lives. In most cases, the romantic possibilities turn on different aspects of the Cancer personality.
Your ability to find romantic relationships and to find the opportunity for love grows out of your personality traits.
These ten trends that I will discuss deal with sides to your personality that impact your ability for Cancer to find love in 2022.
You Enjoy The Good Things In Life
Cancer people know what they like. Cancer people like to enjoy the good life. They have a clear definition of constitutes a good life and a lousy life.
In other words, you have standards. You’re not just the type of person that is carried back and forth or are easily influenced by people around you. While you can take recommendations, for the most part, your definition of the good things in life come from within. You are your own person.
This is precisely the kind of principle, the approach, to your goals, objectives and dreams that make you an attractive partner. Some people are like really sick and tired of basically going with the crowd.
They would like to be inspired by somebody who seems to have an independent streak.
Cancer people have this when it comes to the definition of the good life and sticking to your definition can definitely put you on the radar with the kind of people you’d like to attract in 2022.
Your Appreciation For Art Opens Up Romantic Opportunities
You can tell that somebody is very cultured and has a different spin on things when they really appreciate otherwise impractical things like art. Sure, some artwork can cost a lot of money with time, but for the most part, people don’t really pay much attention to art. They look at themselves as pretty much practical people.
This is really too bad because art appreciation actually impacts many aspects of a person that make life worth living. Good art impacts your mental, emotional, and spiritual components.
If you entertain this side of you that appreciates art, 2022 can be a very good year because you would stand out from the crowd. You would attract people that share the same interests in impractical things like art.
Stop and Smell the Roses
Life can be very busy. Life can be very hectic. It’s too easy to get caught up in our schedules and to really view and define practicality in terms of things that really don’t matter. If you think about it, we’re all going to die.
Life is going to end at some point or the other. It doesn’t matter whether you live one more year or a hundred years from now. We’re all going to end up in the same place.
By understanding this and knowing to stop and smell the roses and really enjoy every moment of your life, you stand out and most importantly; you inspire people because it’s too easy to get up caught up in our schedules.
It’s too easy to get caught up in the rat race and to lose sight of what truly matters. What truly matters is enjoying life in a moment to moment basis.
When you are able to project these and people are able to see this in your life, people would ultimately be drawn to you. This opens up all sorts of romantic opportunities.
Let Your Imaginative Side Shine
People who look at life as tight, constricted, and often feel that they are stuck in their lives feel this way because they have really stopped looking at life as a set of possibilities.
Instead of enjoying each new day with a full sense of possibility and looking at each moment as an opportunity to explore your imagination and creativity, too many people look at what exist. Too many people simply look at what exist and feel discouraged, depressed, and diminished.
This is truly too bad because life is anything but. Life is all about possibility. Life is all about exploration and adventure.
When you let your imaginative side shine through in your conversations as well as in how you live your life, you can’t help but inspire people. You can’t help but awaken that sense of a possibility in people.
When you do this, you stand apart from everybody, and people can start looking at you in a romantic way.
A lot of this has to do with the inspiration you give to others around you.
Don’t Be Afraid Of Your Sensitivity
Life can be a full-contact sport. It really can be. This is really a polite way of saying that life can get quite rough.
People step on each other’s toes all the time. People say the wrong words. People do the wrong things.
All of a sudden, it’s very easy to hurt people as we go along.
A lot of this can really go away if people paid more attention to each other’s needs and became more sensitive.
There are two ways to define sensitivity. There’s the inward-looking definition to the word. This definition is actually the most common definition. When you call somebody sensitive, it’s when this person takes in signals and responds negatively based on these signals.
But there is another definition to sensitivity, and it’s more positive. This definition is all about you projecting outwards and stepping into the shoes of other people and looking at the world through their eyes.
By practicing this ability, you are able to be more thoughtful. You are able to take care of other people’s needs better, then you are able to share of yourself better.
If you’re a Cancer sign looking for love in 2022, make sure that this aspect of yourself is more visible and easy to see.
You’ll be surprised as to the kinds of people that you would attract because let’s face it, in this world, there’s too much insensitivity and not enough empathy.
Don’t Be Afraid To Be Moody
Usually when people call you moody, it’s actually a negative thing. The assumption is that people should be in the same mood day in day out.
Obviously, this is not possible. This imagined ideal of emotional stability simply just doesn’t exist. We are of course to a large part, affected by our circumstances.
Of course, while we’re not necessarily complete products of the things going on around us, they do have a major impact on how we respond to the world as well as the signals that we give out which impact how people respond to us and then impact how we bounce back those signals.
There’s this invisible call and response process happening all the time and it really all boils down to our circumstances and the moods we choose to project.
The good news for Cancer people in matters of love in 2022 is that your moodiness can actually act as a powerful filter. You have to remember that there are certain people in this world that you can attract that you should not attract. These relationships can lead to something very negative and potentially destructive.
By being true to yourself and not caring what other people think when you show your moody side, this goes a long way in filtering out people that you shouldn’t enter into romantic relationships with in the first place.
You Can Be Very Inward Looking
The big challenge in interpersonal relationships in the US and other countries is we’re supposed to be this extroverted, take charge type of person. It seems to be this ideal personality type that everybody should aspire for.
That’s a load of bunk. I’m sorry to say it, but that’s the reality.
The truth is we’re all blessed with different personalities, and we should be proud of these different blessings.
Not everybody could be forward looking. Not everybody could be extroverted and great with people. Not everybody could say the right words at the right times to the right people. While it would be nice to have that ideal, that obviously doesn’t apply to everybody else.
By allowing yourself to be comfortable enough with your inward-looking nature and let other people see it; you stand out from the crowd. It seems that everybody else is trying to match this ideal, and here you are a completely different individual true to yourself.
When you stand out from the crowd, you tend to attract the right attention eventually.
You Would Never Forget Small Details
The dating game is really all about learning signals from each other. We often look at different signals that we send out, and we try to make judgments regarding our personalities, and our ability as potential romantic partners based on these small signals that we send out.
It is a complicated game, and it involves a lot of often confusing mixed signals but the reality is that these small details speak volumes regarding our internal nature and who we really are behind those doors.
If you want to attract the right person in 2022, don’t forget to show your attention to small details. This can actually make you look really attractive to the right person because it shows key details of your personality that they can’t otherwise find out.
After all the Cancer is a horoscope sign patterned after the crab. Crabs have a tough outer exterior that prizes being tough and secure. Deep down, however, they can be a mess of contradictions. Deep down, Cancer people can be quite insecure.
You might want to crawl out of your shell in 2022 if you want to find the right romantic partner. A key part of this is to show your tendency to pay attention to small details.
You Try Not To Hurt Other People’s Feelings
If there’s any one word to describe Cancer people, it is that they are thoughtful. They know how it is to be hurt, and this is why they go out of their way to try not to hurt other people’s feelings.
Obviously, in a very confusing world, this is not always possible. In fact, in most situations, you can’t help but hurt other people’s feelings, especially if they are overly sensitive.
Still, you shouldn’t be afraid to show this part of your personality. By no means should you be ashamed of it.
Because when it is obvious that you care enough about the other people around you, that you try not to hurt their feelings, you would attract people that share those values and most importantly, appreciates those values.
It doesn’t necessarily mean that you attract somebody that also tries to go out of their way to avoid hurting other’s feelings. In many cases, you might attract a person with opposite tendencies.
Regardless, you’d still be on the emotional radar when it comes to matters of the heart because you crawled out of your shell, and you showed to the world this aspect of your personality that they would not normally be privy to.
Don’t Be Afraid To Be Compassionate
Let’s face it, most people are greedy. Most people are only in it for themselves. They’re always looking to use other people. They’re always looking to make the best of any circumstances. They’re always looking to benefit themselves. In other words, most people are takers. They focus on taking, taking, and taking.
People who are compassionate are able to be compassionate because they focus on giving. They don’t focus on how to protect themselves as much as to step in other people’s shoes and feel those people’s pain.
I know this is going to be quite difficult for you to do because the natural tendency of Cancer people is to prevent themselves from being hurt. It’s very easy for you to crawl into your emotional shell and wall people out.
However, if you are a Cancer sign serious about finding love in 2022, you have to let your compassionate side show.
There are of course many different settings and circumstances where you can safely show this aspect of your personality.
The key is to find a solution where you can express your compassionate side and not feel paranoid that you will get hurt when people say the wrong words or do the wrong things to you.
Contents
- You Enjoy The Good Things In Life
- Your Appreciation For Art Opens Up Romantic Opportunities
- Stop and Smell the Roses
- Let Your Imaginative Side Shine
- Don’t Be Afraid Of Your Sensitivity
- Don’t Be Afraid To Be Moody
- You Can Be Very Inward Looking
- You Would Never Forget Small Details
- You Try Not To Hurt Other People’s Feelings
- Don’t Be Afraid To Be Compassionate
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