What is your zodiac sign if you were born on October 9?
If you were born on the 9th of October, your zodiac sign is Libra. You are the quintessential Libra.
You’re lucky because you have largely escaped the extremism of many people born under the same sign. Instead of getting all worked up about absolute ideas regarding big concepts like the truth, you are very easy-going.
While you can weigh different inputs from many sources, you realize the power of emotions, emotional reality, and perceptions.
Accordingly, you get along with most people. When it comes to your deepest and most intimate relationships, you are truly able to listen. This enables you to be supportive and understanding.
However, for the rest of your life, your tendency and preference for wanting to get along leads to a perceived lack of ambition.
October 9 Love Horoscope
People born on October 9 pay a big premium for romantic relationships.
Your intimate relationships are very important to you. You draw a tremendous amount of purpose, meaning, and fulfillment from these relationships.
Not surprisingly, you are extremely flexible. What’s important to you is that the person in front of you feels validated, treasured, and appreciated.
You don’t get hung up on issues like absolute truth or get in too deep in the concept of integrity.
What matters to you is that you’re perceived the right way so you can make the people you care about most feel good around you. That is the primary job that you see for yourself.
This works so well in your personal relationships. Your friendships tend to be very deep.
Your romantic partners tend to be quite loyal to you. You are definitely a winner when it comes to emotional ties.
However, this comes at a big cost.
Those with the birthday of October 9 are best suited for mid-level management or “middle-of-the-road” jobs.
You do well in positions where excellence and extraordinary effort are not required. I’m not saying that you put in the least amount of effort.
When it comes to career, you tend to put this on the back burner. It’s not that important to you. Any kind of job that doesn’t require heavy attention to detail, or extreme commitment to excellence, or high standards would fit you like a glove.
People born on October 9 tend to remain in the middle. They’re not necessarily stuck at the bottom, but most of the time, they don’t rise to the top either.
Being right in the middle or slightly below is perfectly fine with you.
You prize your relationships the most. You don’t want to hurt the feelings of the people who are closest to you.
This is why you often find yourself bending over backwards to listen to them, and make sense of what they have to say.
The big danger here is you open yourself up to be treated like an emotional doormat. You have to understand that there are people out there, where if you give your hand, they would take your arm as well.
There are certain toxic people that are emotional “black holes.” They keep on taking and rarely give anything back.
When it comes to giving of your time and emotional energy, you are high up there.
You are able to make people feel good about themselves because you simply allow them to talk. And when you listen to them, it’s obvious that you truly care about what they’re going through.
You practice a deep sense of empathy. You make them feel validated, appreciated, and welcome.
It’s no surprise that there are a lot of people who want to be your close friends. They appreciated who you are and what you bring to the table.
The downside to this is, it’s easy to come across emotional leeches.
The downside to your personality configuration is that there are people who are takers, not givers.
These people just take, take, take, and never give anything back. They are emotional parasites.
Worst of all, they can even turn you into a doormat.
If they feel that they can always come to you for a deep level of emotional support, they have no hesitation in coming back time and again, and taking until you are tapped out. They may also take you so much for granted that your relationship becomes an abusive one.
October 9 Element
Air is the main element your personality is paired with. Just like air, you can freely move around, and you can easily adjust your position.
The big danger here is that it can be a slippery slope between being understanding and caring, and being so malleable that you really have no core convictions.
You would not want to find yourself in a situation where you are saying, thinking, and doing things that don’t truly reflect your core character.
Jupiter is waning and is experiencing a conflict with Venus at this point. Not surprisingly, this conflicting signals lead to your emotional makeup.
While you consider yourself a very emotionally giving and loving person, it’s also easy for you to find yourself in abusive and one-sided relationships.
Whether it takes the form of a friend who hogs up all your time, or a lover who can’t reciprocate the same level of faithfulness, loyalty, and appreciation as you. Be on the lookout for these cross currents, because they set the tone for many different areas of your life.
Top Tips for People Born on October 9th
My top advice to you is to stand your ground. You have your own core conviction.
You may have spent the rest of your life bending over backwards accommodating other people. Now is the time to find out who you are and embrace it.
There’s a lot about you to be loved. Just because you’re insecure about certain things in your life doesn’t necessarily mean that you are unlovable.
This doesn’t mean you should automatically hide them and bend over emotionally to others. Stop living that way because eventually, you will be treated like a doormat.
Your lucky color is pink.
Pink is like an off color when it comes to the color of passion, which is red.
Pink means health, but it can also indicate anemia. This means you don’t have enough blood.
Depending on how your personality is configured, as far as one-sided relationships go, you can either tap into the positive aspect of pink or suffer from its negative implications.
Your lucky numbers are 17, 32, 48, 65, and 77.
Final thoughts for the October 9 Zodiac
Don’t be afraid to be who you are. There’s a lot about you that’s admirable; that people can look up to.
Don’t fall into the default position of constantly trying to appease and accommodate others, just so they will like you.
That is a sure recipe for disaster. You’re not living for other people; you should live for yourself.