If you are a Pisces, or you are interested in a person born under the sign of the fish, keep the following love predictions in mind during 2014. My predictions in this special Pisces Love forecast for 2014 are based on typical Pisces emotional & spiritual tendencies in 2014.
If you follow this report carefully I am certain that long term love will arrive in the life of the Pisces star sign in 2014.
Dial Back Your Emotional Vulnerability
Many Pisces like to pretend that they’re the most emotionally honest person in the room. Talk about presumptuous. The truth is you might be the most emotionally unstable person in the room, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you’re the most honest.
Let’s face it, a lot of Pisces, especially Pisces men, tend to become self-delusional. They think that their emotional state is reality when in fact nothing could be furthered from the truth.
A lot of times Pisces men misread a particular situation. Regardless, this perceived sense of emotional honesty makes them emotionally vulnerable. They can be played. They can be manipulated.
They can be made to do things that they wouldn’t normally do. So what you should do for 2014 is to be aware of your emotional vulnerability. It’s okay to be emotionally honest, but don’t let that turn into emotional vulnerability and vice-versa. Just don’t go overboard with navel gazing. The truth is the world is not about you.
Life is not all about you. It’s not all about your emotional state. It’s not all about what makes you happy. You should focus instead on other people’s emotions and try to map out your own emotional space based on how other people are feeling.
Once you get this perspective, you would realize that things aren’t so bad or as fragile as you think. Once you do that, you put yourself in a more stable emotional footing that can help you respond favourably to romantic opportunities.
Your Encouraging Words Will Catch Someone’s Attention
If there is one thing about Pisces that people love, it’s that they are encouragers. Pisces love to encourage people. Pisces really have a lot of compassion. Unfortunately, they tend to look at themselves as victims when for a variety of reasons the emotional output they give to others is not reciprocated.
Part of this is due to the fact that Pisces, especially Pisces women tend to become emotional doormats at some point in their lives. The key here is to not let your past hurts or emotional requirements get in the way of you encouraging people.
Keep encouraging people. In 2014 your encouraging words will catch someone’s attention. Think of your encouragement as like planting seeds.
You want to plant as much seeds as possible not because you want to harvest these seeds but maybe you just like having flowers sprout around you. Keep in mind that one of those seeds can and might lead to a romantic situation.
Feel Free to Take Credit
One of the biggest drawbacks to the Pisces personality is that you often let yourself be taken advantage of. This is especially true in the work setting. You might have a great idea and you do your share for the team plus you definitely do the emotional heavy lifting for the team.
At the end of the day, you either don’t get any credit or get less credit than you deserve. Stand up for yourself every once in a while. It’s okay to get into the limelight. It doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. It doesn’t mean you’re needy.
The interesting thing about the Pisces personality is that at some level, they are trying to avoid being perceived as needy that they become scared to be perceived as such. When this happens, they try to avoid the limelight. This opens them up to being treated like emotional doormats.
Don’t let this happen. If you put in the wok and you contributed, share some of the spotlight. Speak up. Raise your hand. Claim credit. Nobody’s going to think you’re a jerk. Nobody’s going to think you’re out of line. You’re just getting what’s yours.
When you do this and you take credit, people will start noticing you. Maybe they’ll notice you first for your accomplishments or your contributions. Eventually, at least one person will notice you in 2014 as a possible romantic opportunity.
It’s Okay to Be Honest
Being the most water-centred of the water signs, Pisces can be quite insecure. They don’t like to be left out. They don’t like to be marginalized. They don’t like to be ignored.
As a result, they try to bend over backwards trying to please everybody else. This is why encouraging people comes naturally to them. The truth is, encouragement is good, flattery is garbage.
Unfortunately, Pisces, guys especially, are willing to erase that fine line between flattery and sincere encouragement.
They are so addicted to other people’s validation that they have become emotionally dishonest.
News Flash: The more emotionally dishonest you become, the more of an emotional doormat you will become. It really is that simple.
Why you might ask. You allow yourself to be emotionally manipulated based on the validation you get from other people. Don’t let other people have that much power over you. People will respect you if you are honest. When you encourage people, your encouragement is worth more when it’s based on an honest assessment. If you are more honest in 2014, people will respect you more and romantic opportunities will open up to you.
However, if you maintain your current status as the go-to-person for quick and cheap encouragement, people will continuously brush you under the rug and neglect you
Attract the Right Person with Your Emotional Honesty and Support
Honesty is the key for a Pisces looking for love in 2014, honesty not just in terms of your relationships with other people, but honesty in terms of your assessment of yourself. You have to be clear as to what your needs are and how you’re coping with your needs.
You probably have been trying to run away from the fact that you are an emotionally needy person. There’s nothing wrong with that. All of us have been born with holes in our hearts that we’re trying to fill. Some people try to fill it with drugs.
Other people try to fill it with lovemaking. You try to fill it with emotional validation. Unfortunately, a lot of these emotional validations come from people with hidden agendas. It comes from people that are trying to manipulate you. Many of these people are actually just trying to use you.
It’s okay to be honest with yourself. It’s okay to stand up for yourself and say “I don’t really need all these emotional validation. I can provide some of it myself.'” The best form of validation is when you can stand up on your own two feet emotionally and pat yourself on the back.
The sooner you do this, the greater of a romantic partner you will become, the more romantically attractive you will become to other people, to the right person.
Just like a fish can be quite slippery, plumbing the emotional depths of the Pisces’ romantic psyche can get quite slippery. However tiring and manually, intellectually and emotionally intensive this may be, it is an important work.
The overarching truth in 2014 for Pisces looking for love is this: When it comes to love, you can only give what you have. If you don’t love yourself, you can’t love other people.
It really is that simple. You have to start with emotional honesty about yourself so you can have the strength that will attract other people to you. Love is a two-way street. It’s not a zero-sum game. It’s not like cutting up a pie, for you to get more love, somebody has to give up their share of love.
Love is really about expanding the emotional pie and if you don’t have any emotional pie or if you have such low self-esteem that you feel you can’t share, then there’s a problem. You have to let go to gain when it comes to romance in 2014 Pisces.