Sagittarius women are probably the easiest women of all the horoscope signs to get along with.
Whether you’re trying to get along on a business level or you’re trying to be friends, Sagittarius women have no problem saying the right words at the right time and giving you what you want.
It’s not like they consciously seek out to become everybody’s friend, but that’s the practical effect.
They can work any room. They can be comfortable in any type of social situation. They’re like fish in water when they are introduced to new people or they put into a room full of strangers. They’re always able to find that spark of common interest among strangers and as a result, they have this easy charm to them that attracts people.
You have to keep these factors in mind when reading through the five dating tips for Sagittarius women below.
This core aspect of the Sagittarius personality informs and influences all the activities of the typical Sagittarius female and this includes dating patterns.
Sagittarius Easy Charm
The great thing about being a Sagittarius woman is that you don’t really have to try all that hard to attract attention. You will attract the attention of guys, especially Sagittarius men. Even guys who may not be attracted to you physically will still be attracted to you because you have that easy charm. You have to remember that this can be a very cold world. Nothing is colder than the dating scene. It’s a meat market out there.
It’s very competitive and a lot of people find it very restrictive and frustrating because you have to put on an act; you have to put on a show; you have to say things you don’t really mean. Who wants to deal with all of that?
As a result, people are feeling lonely. People are feeling frustrated and marginalized and then you come along and things seem so easy to you.
You seem so approachable that you essentially draw these people in. They might not want to date you, but they definitely want to be inspired by you or at least be set at ease by you.
That’s how easy your charm is.
You Can Be Friends With Just About Anyone
Considering the fact that you have a skill and a talent for saying the right things at the right time to the right people, you can be friends with just about anyone. You can be friends with people that other people have written off. You can be friends with people that other people find scary or off putting.
That’s a great talent that you have. That’s a great blessing that you are working with. This will pay off for you when it comes to dating because there really is no such thing as an awkward date with you. You can always find something to talk about.
You can always figure out a way to draw funny stories or get your date to share a little something about himself.
Always Filter People
As awesome as your easy charm and your ability to make friends may be, you have to understand that the big drawback to the Sagittarius personality is that your relationships whether they be friends or lovers, tend to be shallow.
It’s not uncommon for you to hit it off really well and get into a relationship, but the relationship doesn’t really grow past a certain stage. Guess what, a lot of this has to do with you.
In many cases, you find yourself in a relationship with somebody that you shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship with, but you don’t really know how to get out so the relationship just basically gets frozen at a certain stage.
The solution to all this is really pretty straightforward. You have to do a better job of filtering people.
In fact, you have to always filter people because while it’s nice to have thousands of friends, at the end of the day, friendships bring responsibility.
Friendship brings expectations and you don’t want to be perceived as this super shallow person that strikes up all these friendships, but really when your friends need you, you’re not there.
So do yourself a favor by filtering people and basically choosing only to become friends with people you want to be friends with. It’s okay to be acquaintances.
It’s okay to have a nice social network of people that you know, but when it comes to friends and relationships, you need to have a filter otherwise you might be setting up expectations that you end up disappointing.
It’s not uncommon for this to result in misunderstandings during your dates. It’s not uncommon for Sagittarius women to send out the wrong signal.
A guy might fall completely in love with you when you’re just really interested in him as a friend or you’re just interested in him for lovemaking. Whenever there is a mismatch, it’s going to end up with hurt feelings. It’s going to end up with raw emotions and this is precisely what you’re trying to run away from and unfortunately, if you don’t filter people, this is the kind of situation you will find yourself in again and again.
If You Find Gold, Start Opening Up
You have to always remember that you must always filter people. Dating is like a numbers game. If you want to pick to get that one piece of gold, you have to probably filter tons of ore. This means that you have to go through many dates until you find Mr. Right. This is what so fun about dating because you get to know many people. You get to explore their world. You get to step out of your own world and explore other people’s world. However, it can also get tiring. It can also get quite lonely.
Considering the stakes involved, it’s a good idea to open yourself up and try to take things into a deeper level once you find somebody that you think that’s worth hanging on to. I can’t emphasize this enough. If you find gold, start opening up.
Don’t Be Afraid Of Your Emotional Vulnerability
The main reason why many people of other horoscope signs criticize Sagittarius women and Sagittarius men for being shallow is that Sagittarius people are afraid of being hurt. They confuse being hurt with emotional vulnerability.
It’s okay to be emotionally vulnerable as long as you have a solid core. Unfortunately, too many Sagittarius don’t get this and they completely shut themselves off from their relationships.
They let the relationships get very deep until it reaches a certain level and then it stops there. They put up this emotional wall because they are afraid that if they let their partner get close into that center of their heart, that partner might hurt them. I’m sorry to break this to you, but any real relationship worth having is worth taking a risk for.
Don’t be afraid of your emotional vulnerability.
Focus instead on your emotional maturity. If you believe in love and if you believe that you deserve love, then it’s worth rolling the dice to find that love.
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