In this special report I reveal my predictions for Taurus and love in 2014. You might be wondering if Taurus will find love in 2014. If you are you have come to the right place. After reading this report you will learn the 5 things you can do to make sure that you achieve long lasting and true love in your life in 2014.
In many ways, finding love for Taurus can be quite easy and at the same time it can be extremely hard. It is a paradox. On the one hand, as a Taurus you are so confident and so stable, at least superficially, that people find themselves attracted to you.
It is very easy for you to stand out in the crowd. It’s very easy for you to become the star of the show. People like this. People gravitate towards the centre of attention. On the other hand, you can also find yourself trapped into a downward spiral regarding self-doubt and the more you doubt yourself, the more you have to try harder to project yourself out there.
It can result in a paradox where you are the star of the show and you are the king of the hill, but deep down inside you feel empty, tired and lonely. Does this ring true for you Taurus?
This is the great paradox of the Taurus personality and it applies to both Taurus men and to Taurus women. Of course, there are other signs and moon influences affecting your overall astrological composition. However, on the whole, this is the situation facing most people born under the sign of Taurus in 2014 when it comes to finding love.
You have to keep this paradox in mind if you’re trying to find love in 2014. It is not negative. In fact, it is very positive, just like with anything else in life. It is not what life hands you that helps you win the game, it’s how you play that card.
That’s how life, romance, career, money, power, politics, relationships, that’s how it works. It’s not the strength of the cards dealt to you that matters as much as how you play the cards.
There are certain combinations that you should be aware of and there are certain combinations that you should look for. This is true with money as well as love.
Here are my top five tips that will help ensure that Taurus will find love in 2014:
1. Focus on your hobbies
Taurus personalities can be very self-seeking. It’s all about me, me, me – at least, that’s how it appears to other people. Of course, there is an offensive way to do this and there’s also an acceptable way to do this.
The offensive way is very easy. You just need to come off as cocky and arrogant and you will rub people the wrong way. If you come off as hard headed and uncompromising, you will inevitably step on other people’s toes. That’s how it works.
However, there is a way for you to entertain that part of yourself, but at the same time, still be perceived as a team player.
Many successful Taurus personality types have figured out the trick that means they can look out for themselves and care for themselves, in such a way, that it is perceived as caring for other people. Successful Taurus business leaders, important people, celebs and church leaders figured this out.
How you do it is you focus on the things you are passionate about but you help other people that are passionate in the same thing.
This is why if you are a Taurus looking for love in 2014, one of the best things to do it is to focus on your hobbies. When you focus on your hobbies, your natural tendencies to brag gets the hold of you and you spread the word.
Eventually, people will flock to you because Taurus’ confidence is very attractive.
In other words, you’re entertaining your hobbies but it appears that you’re helping them. By helping others, you help yourself. Eventually, if you are able to shift the focus from yourself to a sincere interest or concern for other people, your relationships will get deeper and deeper.
For a Taurus in 2014 when it comes to attracting people and finding love, focusing on your hobbies is a definite winner.
2. Managing your Work / Life balance
In your job you should make an effort to get to know as many different people as possible. These individuals can introduce you to the right people so you can get better paying jobs or get connected with bigger business opportunities. When you are seeking to serve yourself or benefit yourself, you actually end up getting in touch with many kinds of people. When you are in contact with many different kinds of people, all sorts of romantic possibilities occur.
In other words, this advice is all about using your natural traits of self-interest to push you to go out more often. When you go out and reach out more often, you increase the chances of eventually getting in touch with somebody on a deep, romantic level.
I predict that Taurus will meet a man born under the sign of Leo in the last two months of 2014 by keeping busy and focussing on meeting people through work.
Usually, volunteering is deemed as a selfless act. Many people volunteer in churches, soup kitchens, non-profit or non-governmental organizations to make a difference. But, there is a lot of ego involved.
Many people donate tons of money and tons of time to foundations so they can benefit themselves. Like it or not, there’s a lot of attention paid to such people. While originally they really wanted to help and they had purely altruistic motives, at the end of the day, they have become fixated on the other benefits of helping out. Like it or not, your stature in society goes up.
Why? Everybody is too busy looking for themselves and caring for themselves. It is those people who volunteer that actually go out of their way to help others that stand out. The Taurus way to do this is, of course, rooted in self-seeking.
But as mentioned above, you can still benefit a lot of people even though you are helping yourself. Eventually, once you moved past the motivation of purely selfish goals, you’re developing a part of yourself that can attract deeper relationships.
Volunteering opens a gateway for you to develop the more selfless aspects of your personality. The more you polish these parts of yourself, the more diverse your emotional vocabulary will be. Once you reach that stage, the more fulfilling your romantic relationships will be in 2014.
4. Get Out Of The Limelight More Frequently
One of the core elements of the Taurus character and personality, especially for Taurus men, is to go for the limelight.
You want to be the centre of attention. You want to be the centre of every social organization and social gathering. In many cases, if you know what you’re doing, this pays off well.
You entertain people. You get people to laugh and have a good time. In other cases, it becomes a sad and pathetic show where you are basically talking about yourself half the time and the other half trying to gain attention for yourself.
The true mark of a Taurus personality is not so much to get rid of the self-seeking impulse. That is never going to go away. Instead, the focus should be on how to have your self-seeking contribute to the happiness of the people around you.
A great way to do this is to focus your energy on making someone you care about the centre of attention. You open the show but you don’t perform in the show. You close the show but you’re not the center attraction of the show. Do you understand what I mean Taurus?
In other words, you are the person trying to organize things for the benefit of others, but you are more than willing to step out of the limelight.
When you do this, you put yourself in a position where you are more approachable. Moreover, you put yourself in an emotional space where you are more receptive to people that would be worth having a loving relationship with.
Keep in mind when I mentioned relationships, I’m not just talking about lovemaking.
Taurus men and women can get that. That’s not the problem. I’m talking about deep, emotional, long term relationships which are very different from purely physical connections.
With physical connections, you have no problems. As a Taurus, you should have the confidence for that. You know how social dynamics work. That’s not the problem. The problem is connecting with somebody in a way that can be emotionally fulfilling for you and the person you are attracted to.
5. Show More and Brag Less
One of the biggest drawbacks of the Taurus personality is the inability to tell between showing and bragging. It happens all the time. You’re trying to tell a story because you’re trying to teach people about a certain concept at work, or you’re trying to tell a joke to your friends, but eventually, you stray and the story or joke focuses on you.
As mentioned above, you really cannot get rid of the self-seeking tendency. That’s just built into your character and personality as a Taurus man or woman. Self-seeking and self-absorption is welded into the DNA of the Taurus individual. This is not necessarily bad. You just have to be aware of what you’re doing so you can project it and control it in such a way that it benefits you instead of pushing people away from you. This is especially true when telling a story.
Remember that people like to learn. We are all learning organisms. We want to learn because it’s a part of who we are as human beings. It’s a part of how we transcend things. It’s a part of how we get to develop. The problem is, many people that claimed to teach us are actually so self-absorbed that they’re just showing off.
Instead of telling a story, they are just diverting attention to themselves. This can get annoying. It can even get quite offensive. Know the difference. So, when you are telling a joke to your friends or you’re making a demonstration at work, show instead of brag.
When you brag, it’s all about you. It’s all about the good things about you. It’s all about giving people reasons why they should adore you. When you show, it’s all about communication. It’s all about giving people the information they need so they can make informed decisions or otherwise, add value to their own lives.
Know the difference. When you focus your story and communications on showing, you increase the chances of connecting with somebody that would want to know you on a deeper, personal and romantic level.
In 2014 the biggest prison holding Taurus from finding love is the prison of the ego. Unfortunately, it’s a very shallow prison and very hollow. When we are full of ourselves and our ego is deflated, we realize that it took so much space in our lives that other things and other people got pushed out.
This is the biggest problem for Taurus in finding real love. It’s very easy to find fake love. It’s very easy to find people that will use you, abuse you, and exploit you emotionally. That’s not the problem.
A Taurus will have no problems stepping out and being social and attracting lots of attention. That’s not the problem. The problem is attracting the right people.
These are people that would only see the best in you. These are people that would invest real emotional energy in you to help you become the best person you could be and you would want to help that person become the best person they can be.
In other words, these romance tips are designed to help you attract the kind of person that you would want to spend the rest of your life with. Keep the tips above in mind so you can go about it the right way and find long lasting true love in 2014 Taurus.