Are Taurus and Gemini compatible? Are these two signs a good match for love and romance in the year ahead? Find out in my special report into the compatibility between Taurus and Gemini.
Let me just start by saying that there is really no such thing as incompatible astrological signs. All of us have personality traits that can be very negative. However, this can also be offset by a great combination with most other astrological signs.
Even if two extremely negative astrological signs get together, the fact that they get together their changed circumstances can temper those seeming incompatibilities.
The only recipe for disaster is when people in a relationship refuse to evolve and change.
This doesn’t just happen with people born under different signs. This can happen with people born under the same sign.
Ultimately, it’s all about the individuals involved and how they play their cards. This is particularly true for Taurus and love in the year ahead.
If you play your emotional cards right, you will always come out ahead. However, if you tend to let the extreme side of your personality and astrological aspects get the best of you, you will find yourself relying more and more on luck for your relationships to work out.
We need to keep this guidance in mind when looking at compatibility of different signs. For Taurus and Gemini lovers, it will be an interesting year and it is my strong belief that Taurus and the Gemini have some great compatibility opportunities.
The Taurus Man and Gemini Woman
Usually, when two needy people get together it can be an opportunity for mutual growth, or it can be a recipe for disaster.
You cannot try to get something from somebody that doesn’t have what you’re looking for. It is very easy to get into a downward spiral when your needs push you to feel emptier and emptier. This risk is in play when a Taurus man and Gemini woman get together in a relationship.
A Taurus man needs a sense of security and stability and self-assurance. The Gemini fears change and require stability. See the problem with this combination?
Basically, you are dealing with the same insecurities. However, the way out of this seeming incompatibility is the fact that Taurus men are great at compensating. They know that they need more self-assurance. They know that they need more stability. They definitely know they need more security. Consequently, to be perceived as stable, they reach great heights to appear materially secure and emotionally well put together.
It is this display of having their act together that changes the Gemini partner. Instead of fearing change, the Gemini woman actually turns on the positive side of her personality and projects energy, concern and teamwork. This then feeds back into the Taurus man’s need for self-assurance and a belief that everything will be okay. Instead of looking at their base needs as leading to a disaster, it can actually lead to something great and stable in a relationship between these two signs.
Taurus Passion and Gemini in Mercury
Gemini’s can be mercurial. They can range from extremely hot to extremely cold. It’s like you’re dealing with two different people. This shouldn’t be a surprise. Gemini’s are, after all, twins. You may think you’re dealing with one person, but it’s actually two competing natures trapped in one body. A trap may be too strong of a word, however, regardless of how you frame it, Gemini personalities pack a lot of surprises. This is why it is not uncommon for people to write off a particular Gemini member of the team only for that Gemini team member to actually save the day from disaster.
Gemini can really turn it on at the right time. This can be a turn on to the Taurus. While the cold aspect of the Gemini can pose challenges, the fact that the Gemini has a hot side really turns on Taurus, whether the Taurus person is a male or a female.
People born under Taurus are very passionate. They are not just passionate about their work. They are not just passionate about making money. They are not just passionate about being stable in life. They are also passionate emotionally.
Many times you can’t see it on the surface. Many Taurus, especially the male Taurus personality types, look very stable and self-assured and secure on the outside. Of course, we do know this is because of the fact that they don’t feel secure and are often unstable and have low self-esteem.
However, they project that and a lot of that is driven by passion. There is a passion at core of the Taurus personality. The passionate and hot side of the Gemini can definitely identify with this part of the Taurus, and it can lead to a great relationship in terms of love compatibility. Gemini and Taurus are usually also very compatible in terms of emotional intensity. However, in terms of nasty fights and all out emotional damage these relationships are also very volatile.
Taurus Appearances and Gemini’s Bad Attitude
Gemini would like to think that they are deep. Gemini would like to think that they look beneath the surface and like to truly read people. The truth is many Gemini’s are lying to themselves.
They like to present this idea to themselves that they are a certain type of person. However, Gemini really is two-minded. They are composed of two different people, two different extremes. So any attempt on an internal level to think that you have a fixed character is usually a mistake and can be harmful to the compatibility between Gemini and Taurus relationships.
This is the internal conflict many Geminis have to deal with. As a result, Gemini’s have a side to their personality where they tend to focus on surface appearances. This makes Taurus signs really attractive to them.
Taurus is the sign that is well known to have some of the best-looking people in the horoscope. They know how to take care of themselves. Why? It gives them a sense of security and stability.
Looking good also addresses some of their internal self-esteem issues. Taurus doesn’t really try to equate good looks with good internal value, but it is just a form in their minds of maintaining some sort of control over the internal turmoil that they can sometimes feel.
Gemini, on the other hand, when they see beauty and an attractive package, this helps them with their own issues. There’s a great interplay here and a romantic opportunity.
Taurus Consistency and Gemini’s Changing Whims
It can get frustrating to dealing with a Gemini boyfriend or a girlfriend since they can change their minds so quickly and so often. They can literally turn on a dime.
Some people find this exciting and even attractive. Most people find it annoying. If you are headed out to battle, or you’re going through tough times or you’re facing challenges, the last thing you want is for somebody you trust to change their minds. This can lead to disaster.
This is why many other signs don’t trust Gemini at least when it comes to certain things in life. Gemini on the other hand, views this part of their personality as a positive thing. They think that it is a higher form of honesty when you are willing to let go of things that seemed so certain and absolute in the past for a greater reality.
The greater reality being, as we all know, gray. There is no black and white. There are no absolutes at least in terms of compatibility with a Gemini man. Gemini’s celebrate this part of their personality. They call it flexibility. They call it being realistic. Taurus, on the other hand, can find this very, very annoying if not insulting and it can cause major difficulties for the compatibility between a Gemini man and Taurus woman.
This is because Taurus women need stability. The Taurus needs consistency. This is why many people born under Taurus become pillars of society. They need a fixed role. They need a fixed trajectory. This is one area where Taurus and Gemini love partners can quarrel and fight a lot. The last thing a Taurus wants is for things to change while he or she is in the middle of something that they view as being important.
My Final Thoughts on Taurus and Gemini Compatibility
Taurus and Gemini love partners have a very interesting year ahead. Both signs need to be able to temper their extreme sides so that a true and long-lasting partnership can thrive. With that said, there internal needs for stability and their ways of coping with change can actually make this partnership even more dynamic and really fulfilling.
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