If you are attracted to a person who is born under the sign of the bull, you have your work cut out for you. That is the bad news.
The good news is that it is not impossible; you just have to send out the right signals to attract men born under Taurus.
You have to remember that the Taurus man has a specific set of attraction factors and he often has a specific mind-set when it comes to the opposite gender.
While it is too easy to stereotype the typical Taurus as interested primarily in appearances and money, there is a lot more going for the Taurus man than just that.
You have to remember, as much as all signs of the horoscope can be stereotyped to certain predispositions and personality orientations, they all have a polished and an unpolished side.
It is easy to stereotype when we are looking at unpolished sides of a horoscope personalities, particularly when it comes to the Taurus male personality.
After all, it is much easier to work with rough and unfinished items than with polished items.
Things get more complicated when a particular person has certain mature aspects and other immature aspects of the personality and this has a major impact on people who are trying to seduce a Taurus male.
This is very crucial when you are trying to attract and start a relationship with anybody, whether it is a Taurus man or an Aquarius man or a Capricorn man for that matter.
What matters is that you are aware of their general tendencies and you build your attraction strategies based on these tendencies.
Here are four ways of attracting a Taurus man. These four particular approaches are based on my personal expertise and experience and they withstand the test of time.
These four particular tips are not geared towards extreme versions of the Taurus male personality. They tend to focus on the middle; they tend to focus on the average Taurus male personality and disposition.
Of course, just like with any other tips that you read online when it comes to horoscope personalities, you really have to craft or modify these tips so it fits your particular situation.
There is no such thing as a one size fits all approach when it comes to interacting or getting along with or working with any sign of the horoscope.
You can get a broad outline, but you have to fill in certain details based on the specific circumstances with which you are going to be interacting with this person.
To Attract a Taurus Man You Must Come Prepared
A Taurus man is, above everything else, superficial. He pays a lot of attention to what he can see.
In many cases the biggest flaw to the Taurus man is that he tends to equate the things that he can see with the inner core of that person. This causes huge problems between Taurus men and Libra women in my experience.
As the old saying goes, do not judge a book by its cover. You might be looking at an awesome book but if you are just too fixated on the cover of the book, you might be missing out on a great read.
The same goes with people. In many cases people look great, they talk great, they seem to get along well, but deep down they do not really offer anything to you.
On the other extreme are people that look like they have nothing to do with you, they look like they are just a bad fit for you.
However, if you dig deep enough and in the right circumstances, these might be the people that might complete you. These might be the team members, the love interest, or the mentors that you need to take your life to the next level.
Unfortunately, the average Taurus man does not get this lesson, in his mind what you see is what you get. You really have to play this game correctly by making sure that you look right, you dress right, you are fit and you are on your toes if you are serious about attracting a Taurus man.
By being on your toes you are mentally fit. In other words, there is a lot of back and forth, you should be witty, and you should be intelligent enough to be attractive to Taurus.
You have to remember, the typical Taurus man is a man on a mission.
This is a man who is going places in life. He does not like to feel that he is saddled with somebody who is going to hold him back. This is the reason that Taurus and Cancer couples struggle to find long term romance together.
That is how ambitious he is. Sure, you do not have a problem with physical relationships, but that can only take you so far.
This might be a shock to some women who get taken in by the mystique of the Taurus man.
They think that the typical Taurus man has his money; the typical Taurus man is financially capable. While this is all true, they also respect and prize women who earn their own money. They are not looking for parasites.
They are not looking for women that are just going to suck money out of them. While they can be very generous and can definitely give you a standard of living that you can only dream off, you still have to demonstrate that you can earn your own money and that you can be practical.
After all, this is an earth sign that we are talking about. Money talks and BS walks with the Taurus man. So, you have to establish early on that you can earn your own money and that you can stand on your own two feet financially and that you are not going to just be a drain on this person.
The Taurus man tends to run away from obvious gold diggers. Keep in mind that the keyword here is obvious.
Unfortunately, a lot of Taurus men tend to be suckers for gold diggers that are very well disguised, but that is a topic for another article.
Taurus Men Find Vulnerability Attractive
If you want to really open up and attract a Taurus man, you can appeal to his protective side by being open with your vulnerabilities. This is a very powerful technique that will almost always succeed in attracting a Taurus man.
None of us are perfect. There are no people who never made a mistake.
With that said, it is okay to show your vulnerability, it is another thing to wallow in it.
Know the difference. If you are always focusing on your shortcomings or your mistakes or the bad decisions you made in the past, it is very easy for you to come off as emotionally needy or emotionally damaged.
The last impression you want to give to a Taurus man is that you are damaged goods.
If you do this, you might find yourself physically and emotionally used and have very little to show for all your efforts at trying to attract this man.
Their dark side is that they tend to use people.
Just like a bull can trample people on its way, you can be emotionally trampled by a Taurus man. So, watch those hooves and those horns. I am, of course, talking in emotional terms.
Be Clear About What You Want In Life
The biggest turn off to a Taurus man is a flaky woman.
Of course this is not really an issue if the Taurus male just wants to get into bed with you.
At that particular instance, you can be as emotionally screwed up or as flaky as you want because the Taurus guy is not going to stick around for a long term relationship. This is the most common problem that Taurus and Leo couples face.
However, if you want to attract a Taurus man who is going to be there for the long term, you have to be clear about what you want in life.
At the very least, you have to appear like you are clear or you are directed in your life. You have to remember, the typical Taurus man is ambitious.
The typical Taurus man is direction oriented. At the very least, have some of these traits. Otherwise, it can be clear to the Taurus man that you are not really a match, so his focus then is more of a physical match. In other words he may be just physically using you.
Depending on your game plan or what your needs are, this may or may not be a good idea.