When it comes to faithfulness, cheating and affairs and the Aquarius man one of the most fundamental questions people looking at the horoscope ask regarding their love partner is whether their partner can be trusted.
Make no mistake about it. There is no one horoscope sign that is prone to unfaithfulness and infidelity. We all make mistakes. We all face temptations.
There are certain general trends in our personality configuration as it relates to the horoscope that can lead to infidelity. It’s not just the person being analyzed that ends up being unfaithful because the person wants to be unfaithful. In many cases, in fact in 9 times out of 10, infidelity happens due to the actions of the other partner.
Make no mistake about it. When it comes to infidelity, cheating around, and betraying the person that you are in a romantic relationship with, it really takes two to tango. You might think that you are the victim of the infidelity; you might think that somebody stabbed you in the back romantically.
However, if you’re completely honest with yourself and you are an emotionally deep person, you would realize that there are certain points in the relationship where you have dropped the ball.
Of course this doesn’t absolve the cheating partner of all responsibility. This doesn’t mean that you should not hold the other partner accountable. But, if you are being truly honest, you have to look at everything that is involved.
If you really want to avoid a repeat of the situation, or if you want to truly move on and heal from the infidelity, you have to understand how you contributed to this situation. This is the beginning of real emotional maturity. This is the beginning of real depth in the relationship.
So, can the Aquarius man be trusted in love? Just like with other horoscope signs, the answer is a resounding, “It depends.”
Here are the factors why:
Aquarius Men Tend to Be Idealistic
If there is one thing that you want to understand about your Aquarius male partner, it is this: They tend to be idealistic. They are not driven primarily by money; they are not driven primarily by their emotions. They are driven primarily by dreams.
Unlike Virgos that have this black and white dream of the way the world should be, Aquarius tend to be focused on coming up with an idea and pursuing that idea until it becomes a reality.
This idea doesn’t have to involve the social order; it doesn’t have to be some ideological or doctrinal idea. In fact, it can be very practical. It can be some sort of product or internet technology that they are very excited about.
Regardless, Aquarius men are dreamers. They are pushed in a very emotional way by the power of their dreams. This is why it’s not uncommon for Aquarius men to become fabulously wealthy.
Why? When those dreams pan out and they benefit a lot of people, a common by-product of that process of turning an ideal into a reality is that there’s a lot of money involved. There are a lot of material payoffs involved.
You have to understand this about the passion and the drives of the Aquarius man in your life. This is a key clue in figuring out how well you can trust your Aquarius man to stay in love with you. It is also a clue as to how you should behave.
You Need to Be Within Their Ideal Vision
The Aquarius man has an ideal vision for everything, and this also involves relationships. They are so driven by their ideals, and it is extremely important for you to be within that world.
This doesn’t mean you have to sell out; this doesn’t mean you have to pretend; this doesn’t mean you have to put up an act. In other words, you don’t have to be a hypocrite.
However, you have to be honest whether you’re in that ideal or you’re not. If you’re not in that ideal, you have to carve out a space in that ideal. And of course, this requires a lot of honest and deep communication.
You Need to Take Care of Yourself
You need to be able to handle your end of the emotional bargain. You have to take care of yourself emotionally. If you are always depending on your Aquarius man, this can be an issue and it can lead Aquarius to become unfaithful is some extreme cases.
Also, you have to share in his vision. This doesn’t mean that you have to live your life around his life. This doesn’t mean that you have to deny yourself completely just to be in the relationship. But it does mean that it has to be a real partnership. In other words, you both have to share.
This is the key to understanding whether the Aquarius man can be trusted in love. Because if he doesn’t see that you share his vision, if he doesn’t see that you live in this ideal space, he might see that you are detached. He might confuse this with lack of support.
He might see this as emotional distance. If this happens, this can lead to the Aquarius man becoming emotionally distant from you.
Your Lack of Support Can Lead Him Astray
The worst thing that you can do to an Aquarius man is to call his ideas worthless. If you constantly criticize him for his grand visions, it’s not uncommon for the Aquarius man to basically wall you off or start distancing himself emotionally from you.
Whenever there’s enough emotional distance between you and your Aquarius male partner, it’s very easy for the Aquarius man to basically cheat.
The reality is that in their minds, you’re not worth hanging on to. In their minds, you have basically distanced yourself away from them, that they’re really not losing much if they give in to temptation and try to find emotional fulfillment elsewhere.
You have to understand that the Aquarius man is not seeking to cheat you. The Aquarius man is not seeking to go astray. A lot of this person’s behavior revolves on how you respond.
If you constantly judge his ideas and you constantly call his grand visions unrealistic or some crackpot visions, this person can easily feel alone. This person can easily feel emotionally abandoned. Whenever people feel that way, they don’t really have any incentive to be loyal. They don’t really have any reason to stay faithful to you unless they have very deep principle.
Since Aquarius men tend to define their principles based on how their ideas are received, you can easily become the fly in their ointment.
As a result, your emotional needs end up not mattering all that much. In other words, before you know it you’ve lost them for good.
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