There are many ways to understand people born under different horoscope signs. Usually, the most common way people born under an astrological symbol are analyzed is to focus on what their personality traits are like in a neutral setting.
Also, quite popular is to look at their different personalities from a positive perspective or an essential perspective.
I’d like to do something different with this analysis of the personality of people born under the Cancer symbol.
Instead of looking at Cancer symbol people from a neutral or essential perspective, we’re going to take a look at their personality from a pretty unconventional point of view.
I’m going to analyze them based on what they hate. You have to remember that you can tell a lot about a person based on what they like, based on their dreams, or based on what sets them off; in other words, what they hate.
Regardless of how you look at a particular personality type; you end up pretty much at the same place.
Whether you look at a person based on their ideals or based on their essentials or based on what makes them uncomfortable, enough of the interpersonal dynamics that really strike at the core of who they are will come out. You would get enough information so you can pretty much piece together a pretty accurate picture of the person.
In fact, it’s a good idea to analyze people born under the Cancer symbol based on what they hate because this is a pretty rare perspective, and it’s also good idea.
Why? If you’re trying to get along better with your Cancer friend, it’s a good idea to understand the things that they don’t like.
If you are in a relationship with a Cancer, it’s a good idea to know these things so you don’t step on their toes emotionally and figuratively speaking.
So without further ado, here are some interesting facts regarding people born under the Cancer symbol based on what they hate.
Pretentious People Turn Them Off
Cancer people are very driven. They have a very tough exterior, but deep down, they are very emotionally sensitive. They can pick up a lot of things.
In many cases, you might think that they are passive. You might think that they don’t really care, or they’re just so focused on what they’re doing. But you’d be absolutely wrong. They actually have their own emotional antennas up, and they’re picking up a lot of signals.
This is why insensitive people, people who are pretentious, people who are harsh and thoughtless really turn off Cancer people.
They turn off Cancer people in two different levels depending on the person born under the Cancer symbol.
For immature Cancers, they get irritated by insensitive, pretentious, thoughtless, and harsh people because guess what? They have those qualities as well.
As the old saying goes: Thieves hate other thieves. In other words, you tend to focus on traits that you yourself have and you’re overly sensitive to that.
The good news is that this only applies to immature Cancer people. There are other Cancer people that have matured beyond that, and they are irritated because they see themselves in the past, and they wish that the person exhibiting that those kinds of traits would see that you can evolve past that stage.
The irritation is more out of concern instead of a sense of superiority or a sense of self-loathing.
They Hate Certain Types of Critics
Don’t get me wrong. People born under the Cancer symbol can take criticism. They really can.
The problem is if you criticize them too much, and you keep pushing the envelope, and you never really offer any solutions; it would really put you in a tight spot with a Cancer. Cancer people are open-minded and smart enough to accept constructive criticism.
The problem is most people are criticizing not because they want to improve the situation, but they’re emotionally venting.
People born under the Cancer symbol know how fruitless and worthless this is. This is why they get really irritated at the criticism that really doesn’t bring any answers.
Here’s a tip. If you want to criticize a Cancer person, make sure you spell out why something is wrong and more importantly, how to improve the situation.
In other words, you have to bring something to the table. You can’t just basically criticize a Cancer just for the sake of it. What you will get is a push back.
You have to remember that, deep down, people born under the Cancer symbol are quite insecure, and it’s bad enough that they’re struggling with these internal insecurities. Don’t make it worse by making baseless criticisms. Cancer people don’t really take too kindly to just raw negativity.
People Who Don’t Keep Their Word
Cancer people really go out of their way to promote propriety. They place a big importance on things looking right. So they do right because they believe in things looking right. Pretty straight forward.
They understand that the whole concept of if you want to change to take place in your world, you have to be that change. Be the change you want to see. They’re all about that.
This is why they hold themselves to a high standard. And guess what? Everybody else is held to a high standard as well.
So something so basic like keeping your word and making sure you fulfill your promises are important to them, and if you are forgetful about the promises, you made or the dates that you’ve set, it can really rub them the wrong way.
In fact, you don’t have to repeat this error too many times for them to basically start doubting you and losing their trust in you.
Make no mistake about it. If you lose the trust of a person born under the Cancer symbol, it’s not going to be just a minor inconvenience for you.
Cancers are known to wall people off emotionally.
This is basically the final nail on the coffin of your friendship or relationship. After all, relationships that do not have emotional intimacy and emotional connection and authenticity are, for all intents and purposes, dead.