If you have a Pisces rising personality or you are born ascendant in Pisces, you’re in luck.
One of the most important skills you ever need in this life, regardless of what field you go into, is the ability to get along with people.
We live in social world; humans are emotional animals. By definition, we need to get along with each other, we need each other. In many cases, people are powerful and are able to turn their dreams into reality precisely because they are able to interact with other people and pull their resources.
This is how companies work; this is how relationships work; this is how any form of interpersonal link work out. You need other people; you need to build bridges.
The great thing about being born ascendant in Pisces is that your ability to connect with people on an emotional level, or at least read emotional signs, is amazing. There are many astrological signs that are completely clueless regarding the emotional signals people give off to each other.
People with a strong Pisces rising personality are able to map out emotions around them. As a result, they are very sensitive to people’s needs. When you are appreciative of people, they can feel it.
When you can sense the hurt in people’s lives and you console and comfort them, people are grateful.
Your ability to map out your world in terms of emotions is a strong asset, especially in regards to Pisces career in the year ahead. However, it does have a downside. You have to be aware of this. Whether you are a true Pisces or you are born ascendant in Pisces, you have to be aware of the pitfalls of emotional mapping.
Avoid Becoming a Martyr
The main reason why people like Pisces people is because they know that Pisces people respond in an emotional way. They know that in a deep and profound way, Pisces people truly care.
When you communicate to people that you care about them, you will quickly become popular. When you show people that you appreciate them on a truly deep, personal level, they can’t help but repay your appreciation.
That’s how people are. We all believe in reciprocity. Think about it; if our ancestors hundreds of thousands of years ago didn’t exhibit reciprocity, those individuals probably died out. It’s those ancestors that were able to help each other who survived.
By being social creatures, we ensure that our DNA survives another generation. This is why most other signs appreciate the Pisces.
The downside is that there are such people as emotional leeches. These are people that basically suck the emotional life out of you. They take, take, and take, but they never give anything back.
It’s not uncommon for these individuals to ask for your ear and they talk, and talk, and talk, and at the end it all, they get up and feel better about themselves, but you’re left depressed and discouraged.
There is a point where you walk away. There is a point where you have to avoid becoming a martyr. This is the big danger with true Pisces signs, and people born ascendant in Pisces.
People may not want your money; people may not want to take your money, but some people would actually want to take something worse. They want to take something more important. They want to take your emotional attention.
In many cases, you can only absorb so much. You can only empathize so much. There becomes a point where you have to walk away, or at least put some distance between you and that person.
Avoid becoming an emotional martyr. There are people like that, that basically just want to soak up your energy and give nothing back.
Support vs. Becoming an Emotional Punching Bag
The whole concept of emotional martyrdom is particularly important for people born ascendant in Pisces or true Pisces people, in the realm of romantic relationships. You have to remember that you can abuse somebody with your fist or with your words.
There are many layers to verbal abuse. The worst form of abuse in a romantic relationship is abuse that isn’t like verbal abuse.
This person might be saying neutral words; this person might even seem like he or she is saying soothing words, but when you read between the lines and when you read in context, this person is actually treating you like an emotional punching bag.
There are many cases where people threaten themselves to get an emotional rise out of their partner. You don’t have to put up with that. When somebody threatens to hurt themselves, they are really treating you like an emotional punching bag.
They want to test how much you care. That’s not a sign of a healthy relationship; that’s not a sign of true respect for your partner.
Be aware of these signs. Don’t become an emotional punching bag.
You have to remember, people who are born ascendant in Pisces are very attractive people because they are emotional people.
People looking for emotional validation and people looking to be comforted gravitate to people with a strong Pisces rising personality. All sorts of abuse can happen when this takes place.
Beware of Your Oversensitivity
Since you like to map out your world in terms of emotional signals, you can easily become oversensitive. Oversensitivity really boils down to you reading too much into a particular situation.
People say hurtful things, people do hurtful things. We live in a very imperfect world. You need to get over that. You need to thicken your skin a little bit.
The worst thing you can do is to constantly read yourself into the lives of people around you. I’m sorry to break it to you, but that’s not the way to live. Otherwise, you’re going to be very, very sensitive, and the only victim is yourself.
The worst part of it all is you set yourself up to fail emotionally. You set yourself up to get hurt again and again.
If you are born ascendant in Pisces or you are a true Pisces, it’s always a good idea to check yourself when you’re feeling highly emotional. A lot of the time, you’re just reading too much into things. A lot of the time, you’re just being overly sensitive.
Maturing Your Pisces Rising Side
I hope I haven’t given you the wrong impression. I hope I haven’t given you the idea that the Pisces rising personality is basically a problematic personality.
I can’t emphasize it enough. There is no such thing as a problematic or inherently bad astrological sign. No such animal exists.
We all have positive sides and negative sides. We’re all part demons, and part angels. That’s what we are. Life is complicated; it’s never black and white.
If you read certain things above that may have upset you or that got you worrying, the good news is that people born ascendant in Pisces can mature their Pisces side.
The secret to the horoscope is that if you want it to truly work for you and if you want to enjoy only the positive elements of your horoscope sign, focus on maturity. All the factors I mentioned above go away or stabilize when you become more mature.
There is no such thing as a bad astrological sign. We all have our problematic sides, and we all have our promising sides. It’s all about maturing and living a life of integrity.
The less contradiction there is in your character, the happier you will become, and the more fulfilling your life will be.
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