When it comes to answering the question – will Leo find love in 2022 – it is crucial to fully understand the Leo personality.
The interesting thing about the Leo personality is that there’s such a big contrast between who you are in public and who you are in private. Very few people actually reach the innermost side of your personality.
In fact, even you yourself are in doubt about who you really are in terms of love and deep romantic connections. In many cases, you are a work in progress and you yourself seem to have a fuzzy picture of who you really are regarding this very important aspect of your life and it is especially true when it comes to the Leo woman and love.
This is really too bad because as Socrates said, “A well-examined life is the only life worth living.”
A little bit of your investment of time, effort, an energy and self-introspection will pay off not just in terms of your career choices, not just in terms of how you deal with other people but also in what to look for when it comes to love.
It’s very easy to basically take shots in the dark and to go for things that are really not worth going for and many Leos often find themselves in loveless relationships because they feel that they’re supposed to be in such a relationship because in their minds, that’s what other people want.
So there’s always this internal tension between what you project and who you really are inside and the deep, seemingly inexhaustible well of insecurity that tends to fuel your outward bursts of courage, strength, and other external projections.
Of course, the life of a Leo doesn’t have to be one massive shadow play. It can actually be rooted in integrity, but for this to happen, you would have to be challenged, and the worst thing is that life can challenge you, or you can challenge yourself.
If you’re looking to control your ability to mature as a person, try to challenge yourself instead of letting life do it for you because if you let life take its course, your situation might end up in a place where you don’t want it to end up at.
Here are my ten reasons Leo will find love in 2022.
You Are Outgoing
Your outgoing side can draw people. There’s nothing more attractive than somebody who is adventurous, who likes to meet new people, who like to explore new situations and go somewhere.
You have an outgoing side to you, and you should encourage that, but you have to focus on the real outgoing side of yourself, not the over inflated or flashy dimension of this tendency.
Remember, you’re not playing for a crowd. You’re not putting on a show. If you’re truly outgoing, then show this aspect honestly.
Dare To Be Funny
One of the things holding back Leos from really making a lasting emotional and personal connection is that they’re so afraid of what other people would think in terms of emotionally going out on a limb that they really try to hold back. It’s really hard to hold back and be funny at the same.
Being funny is all about taking the right gambles. If you ask any comedian, they would tell you the secret to excellent comedy is really timing.
Timing is something that you learn on a hit-or-miss basis. In many cases, you have to die many times on stage before you can start killing the crowd.
That’s the key. You have to take that shot, and you have to take that risk.
So if you want to find love in 2022 as a Leo, entertain your funny side with the understanding that you will bomb quite a bit, but you should be able to live with that risk.
Let Your Boisterous Nature Shine Out
You have a boisterous side that is very engaging. You have a boisterous side that has a lot of energy. Considering that a lot of guys are too content to talk about things that are cool, talk about things that are supposed to be conventionally acceptable, entertaining this aspect of your psyche enables you to break out of the mole.
Again, this all involves a lot of risks because you can be boisterous or not boisterous enough. It’s all about overcoming your tendency to hold yourself back because you’re afraid of looking like a fool.
The reality is that if you look like a fool to a certain person, that might not be the love match for you, and also there are many love matches where people made fools out of themselves. That’s what made them human and made them approachable on an emotional level in the first place.
Don’t Be Afraid To Be Larger Than Life
When you are larger than life, you rise above the smallness of life. The reality is that it’s very easy to look at life as filled with limitations. It’s very easy to look at life like you’re coloring a figure in a coloring book. You’re not supposed to color outside the lines.
And these rules could be so constricting that it really could poison relationships. There are many romantic relationships where the couple doesn’t actually talk about certain topic, and they’ve been married for several years.
By exploring this side of yourself that is larger than life, that is hard charging, and more than willing to cross over the line, you attract the right people and most importantly; you push yourself to show different aspects of your personality. This is a key part of being completely honest with your emotional repertoire that you are capable of projecting.
Let Your Hard Charging Nature Take Over
One of the most common stereotypes of the Leo personality is that they often charge into all sorts of situations with only half the facts.
This is of course a recipe for disaster.
If you want to make the right decision, you have to make an informed decision. In other words, you have to have enough information so you can enjoy a higher than average chance of making the right situation happen.
This is not always the case with the Leo because truly immature Leos are actually playing the hard charging role. They’re not really hard charging people, but they feel that they have to step up to the role and not surprisingly, they keep making mistake after mistake.
This is devastating enough when it comes to matters of career and finances, it’s all the more crippling when it comes to your emotional life. In my experience it can cause major problems for matches between Leo and Gemini signs in particular.
At the same time, you have to show this aspect of yourself so can stand apart from the competition. So there’s this very difficult tightrope that you have to walk.
Unfortunately, 2022 will not be different from previous years in terms of your ability to walk that tightrope in such a way that it leads you to where you need to go emotionally speaking.
Don’t Let Your Boldness Get The Best Of You
There’s a big difference between being confident and being cocky. There’s a big difference between being courageous and being foolhardy. Unfortunately, too many Leos miss the memo regarding the differences, and this is bad enough when it comes to issues of finances, life choices, career choices.
This can actually have disastrous effects when it comes to matters of the heart. While you can stumble and fall and have your wounds heal over time, it’s very hard to recover from a broken heart, especially if it was dealt by a particularly vindictive person.
You like to project the bold aspect of your personality but there’s a very strong chance in 2022 of you attracting precisely the wrong kind of person.
You have to remember that real relationships are all about emotional authenticity, and people don’t like being played like a fool. If you display yourself as product A, and you turn out to be product B and if you attract the wrong person, you might have a hell to pay because nobody likes to waste their time, and nobody likes to feel that they got played.
On the other hand, you need to project your emotional boldness so you can stand out from the crowd. It’s very easy for emotional signals that you’re sending out in a romantic context to fall between the cracks or get overwhelmed by the background noise.
Again, this is really a tightrope that you have to walk very carefully. It takes a lot of maturity and a lot of self-introspection to really pull this off.
This is why when it comes to love, 2022 will be a 50-50 proposition for the Leo.
Be So Courageous That You Don’t Mind Being Hurt
I know this is a tall order, but I need to say it. A lot of your actions are driven by the fact that you are afraid. People might look at you as this brash, bold, outgoing person that likes to take credit and likes to be at the center of attention.
However, there’s a reason why you want to hog a spotlight. There’s a reason why you like to be perceived as this larger than life character.
The reality is that you feel really small. The reality is that you feel that you’re inadequate, and that is the curse of the immature Leo. The good news is that you can choose to become a mature Leo by being courageous in the right situations.
Now, the following piece of advice might actually offer some cold comfort, but I’m going to say it anyway. You have to be courageous in taking a fall. You have to be courageous in making a decision that you know will hurt because you really don’t change unless you’re challenged.
Save for the Taurus, the Leo is actually is one of the toughest when it comes to personal change in the entire zodiac. You take a lot of beatings, but it’s very hard for you to change. In fact, the old quote from the German philosopher Nietzsche applies to you: What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger.
Well, the problem is you can be so strong, but you’re not able to learn. That is too bad, especially when it comes to your romantic life. You have to allow yourself to be hurt. You have to allow yourself to be challenged emotionally enough that you finally get the memo.
Unfortunately, you can easily find yourself in a pattern where you’re trying the same thing again and again and expecting different results each time. According to Albert Einstein, that is the definition of insanity.
You Can Be Introspective
I know this piece of advice or revelation might be a surprise to you. You might think that you’re this person already knows himself or herself, and you might think that you already have a clear idea of your personality’s broad parameters.
Well, I’ve got news for you. You have the ability to be very introspective. Use this part of yourself to really get in touch with the emotional truths you need to grapple with.
A huge part to the way you carry yourself is driven by insecurity and the need for external validation. The reality is that regardless of how other people like you; it is a poor substitute for real self-confidence. Real self-confidence and real self-esteem can only come from within.
The best news is that it’s a choice but to be able to get to that choice; you have to practice a deep enough level of self-introspection. This means revisiting potentially painful past memories. This may involve realizing certain things that make you feel awkward or insecure.
This level of introspection and emotional authenticity is definitely needed for you to turn from the immature Leo, who gets into one bad relationship after the other to mature Leo, who can fully live life to its outer limits.
Allow Yourself to Have a Soft Spot
I’m not talking about putting on a show. I’m not talking about like being perceived as vulnerable. Guys do this all the time but in reality, it’s one of the most insecure and personally weak things they can do.
I’m talking about allowing yourself to have a genuine soft spot and allow yourself to be hurt. This may seem like emotional suicide but in reality, this actually forms a gateway to experiencing the challenges that you need to truly change.
There is that aspect of you that once again triggers that quote from Nietzsche because you can keep on taking emotional damage but instead of it changing you, it just makes you even more stubborn and harder and pushes you on to a track that you shouldn’t be on in the first place.
In other words, you go further and further into immaturity and further and further into emotional inauthenticity.
The antidote this is to really allow yourself to have that soft spot and vulnerability where you can allow circumstances to hurt you in such a way that it can actually give birth to a new aspect of your personality.
Be Passionate About the Right Things
Let’s face it, the only thing you’re really passionate about is the deep and profound sense of inadequacy that is pushing you to project a show of strength to others.
You don’t want to live your life that way because you don’t want to wake up at 80 years old and realizing that you lived a lie. You have to live a life of integrity and a life of integrity of course is built on pain, reality, and honesty.
And the best part of this all is that there is this sense of passion that is pure, unbridled, and can’t be intimidated that can enable you to not just find the love that you’re looking for but also to push you to turn your dreams into a reality that you can see, smell, touch, hear, and feel.
One of the biggest disappointments of the Leo personality is that they have all these big dreams, but they feel that they are stuck in their lives, and they’re going around in circles chasing their tail.
But unfortunately, it’s really just a choice because the passion that’s needed to truly break out is thwarted and misdirected.
By zeroing in on this pure source of passion, you can direct it into where you need to go, which are deeper levels of self-discovery and deeper levels of emotional authenticity.
- You Are Outgoing
- Dare To Be Funny
- Let Your Boisterous Nature Shine Out
- Don’t Be Afraid To Be Larger Than Life
- Let Your Hard Charging Nature Take Over
- Don’t Let Your Boldness Get The Best Of You
- Be So Courageous That You Don’t Mind Being Hurt
- You Can Be Introspective
- Allow Yourself to Have a Soft Spot
- Be Passionate About the Right Things