When it comes to people, the Sagittarius personality is one of the most social of all horoscope signs.
It’s very hard for the Sagittarius to alienate people and give a bad impression.
They have this gift. Some would call it a talent, but I would call it a gift. A talent is something you develop.
Sure, you may be born with it but for you to truly maximize its benefits, you really have to work at it.
The Sagittarius personality, on the other hand, is a gift. It just exists, and it doesn’t take much training to get on the best side of people.
Whether it’s cracking jokes, smiling a lot, or simply sending out positive vibrations, Sagittarius people have it all figured out.
You might think that the Sagittarius man has the world in his hands. While you may be right at some levels, you have to understand that his personality and his love for people can also be a curse.
Just like with anything else in life, too much of a good thing can be a bad thing. For every blessing, there is a curse.
In fact, in many cases, it’s the exact same thing. It all depends on the context and the timing.
The Sagittarius man who is immature and still trying to find his way around the world is quite different from the Sagittarius man who is mature.
This should be a no-brainer. This should be quite obvious and straightforward.
However, considering the fact that the Sagittarius is very social and very good with people, it can have a tremendous impact on how he sees himself as well as his capabilities.
Here’s the definitive guide to the Sagittarius man.
Sagittarius men and love
Sagittarius men can easily fall in love. In fact, it’s very easy to fall in love with a Sagittarius. What’s not to like?
They’re very charming, upbeat, and can be very positive. They also tend to talk to you like they see only the best in you. This is a winning combination.
Looks aside, personality plays a big role in romantic attractions. Even if the guy doesn’t look all that hot, if he makes you feel special, you can’t help but pay attention to that guy.
If the guy is persistent, or you find yourself in certain situations with him, his charm is almost irresistible. This is what the Sagittarius man has going for him.
The downside to all this is that Sagittarius people are so lovable. In fact, they don’t have to try at all for people to be attracted to them.
I’m not saying that they are these magical beings that people can’t just help but fall in love with. I’m not saying that at all.
What I am saying is that they have the basic groundwork covered as far as interpersonal attraction.
It makes it easier for them to be attractive and magnetic.
In fact, it is so easy for both Sagittarius men and women that they have a tough time committing.
As the old saying goes, why would you buy the cow when you get the milk for free?
Put in the dating context, why would you want to settle down with somebody or commit to somebody romantically when you have so many options?
In fact, if you look halfway decent, and you’re a Sagittarius man, you have more options than you can deal with. That’s the reality they are working with.
It is no surprise then that when it comes to matters of the heart, it takes a long time for the Sagittarius man to commit and love unconfitionally.
Some Sagittarius men can take forever to commit.
In many cases, their commitment is at the level of words only. It takes a while for their heart to truly commit.
You need a heart to commit if you want total loyalty and fidelity in love. It’s not uncommon for Sagittarius men to have several women on the side.
Sagittarius men and relationships
In terms of romantic relationships, Sagittarius men tend to view this as a very problematic part of their lives.
To put it bluntly, they are quite afraid of commitment.
This should not be a surprise. If you have a lot of romantic options coming from everywhere, you would be hesitant to pick one person and stick with that person for life.
Don’t get me wrong, Sagittarius men understand how relationships work. Sagittarius men have a very high view of loyalty, commitment, and dedication.
This is precisely their problem. They know what’s at stake. They know the high level of expectation they have of themselves when they commit.
This is why as much as possible, they would rather hold off on committing.
The good news is that once you get a Sagittarius man to fully commit, you have a loyal partner for life. This is a person that will go through all sorts of personal hell with you and will stick by your side.
Whether you get sick, go bankrupt, or go to jail, it doesn’t matter. This person will be there for you.
Things won’t change even if you have children and grow old together. That’s how loyal a Sagittarius man can be.
The big challenge is getting him to that point. They take a while. Some guys take only a few years but for them, it took forever.
Other guys actually take forever. By commitment, I’m talking about committing not just in words but in actual actions and real devotion and sacrifice.
Sagittarius men and friendships
Sagittarius men can be very good friends. They really can. I don’t mean to repeat that because it’s theoretical.
I need to repeat that because it’s the truth. If you think that this is somewhat awkward, I agree with you.
The reality is that there are Sagittarius men that can be very good friends. The problem is most Sagittarius people are very shallow. They are very superficial.
Regardless of whatever social situation you throw them in, they tend to do well.
They might not be the center of attention or running the show, but they tend to do well enough that they don’t really feel that they have to commit to a certain circle of friends.
In many cases, a lot of their friendships are quite shallow. What do I mean by this?
Well, just by looking at their friends, you might think that they are really best friends and would do anything for each other.
However, if push comes to shove, the Sagittarius will have cold feet, and the Sagittarius men would have a tough time making hard decisions for his friends.
In other words, he would really hesitate if helping out his friends would set him back or would be inconvenient. I don’t know about you, but that’s not exactly the ideal definition of a friend.
This is why many horoscope signs tend to look at Sagittarius men as fair-weather friends.
They’re great to have around if you’re throwing a party or if things are going well in your life, you have a lot of money, and you’re healthy.
However, when things go south, you’re probably better off looking for other friends.
The good news is once you get the Sagittarius man to commit to your friendship, you have a friend for life. You have a friend who would actually go all the way.
I’m talking about massive amounts of sacrifice just for you. Now, that is a friend.
The problem is, again, getting him to that point.
Sagittarius men and lovemaking
Sagittarius men get so much attention from members of the opposite gender that lovemaking becomes a problem.
You might think that is a contradiction in terms or an oxymoron. You might think that is logically impossible. No, it isn’t.
Think of it this way: If you don’t have to try all that hard to get attention from the opposite gender, then it follows that you wouldn’t try all that hard to please them in bed.
In many cases, you know they will always keep coming back. They’re just addicted to your personality.
You make them feel good. You set the right atmosphere. Whatever it is, they will keep coming back.
Unlike other horoscope signs where you really work hard to make her climax at least three to five times each time you’re together, you feel it’s okay as long as you climax.
It’s not uncommon for Sagittarius men to be quite greedy when it comes to lovemaking. In most cases, it’s like making love with somebody who’s really just alone in the room. That’s how bad it can get.
The good news is as the Sagittarius man matures, this part of their personality tends to go away.
They start realizing that great action in bed is a two-way conversation using your bodies, minds, and emotions.
Sagittarius men and career
Sagittarius men make for great spokesmen. If you’re looking for a speaker for your team, a Sagittarius would be a great choice.
They know how to handle social situations. They’re not afraid of public speaking and going into an alien social territory.
Most people would get scared speaking in a roomful of strangers. Not the Sagittarius.
In fact, the Sagittarius can do quite well in a room full of haters and critics. That’s how gifted Sagittarius people are in terms of social ease.
Now, with that said, you have to make sure that you’re prepared. If you’re a Sagittarius man, make sure you are prepared for your career.
In other words, you need to bring substance to the table. Simply being a good speaker or a good people-person is not enough to take you to the top.
This is why a lot of Sagittarius men tend to get stuck in public relations and middle management positions. There seems to be this invisible line preventing them from moving to the top.
A lot of this is due to overreliance on social ease.
You know that you’re great with people. Unfortunately, you don’t invest enough in other aspects of your career to make you a truly compelling package.
As a result, you tend to typecast yourself. Not surprisingly, you tend to get stuck at certain levels of business organizations you find yourself in.
Sagittarius men and money
When it comes to money, Sagittarius people can be quite sensible.
They don’t really feel that they need to spend money to prove something or spend a lot of money to impress other people.
People are already easily impressed by their personality. That’s the great thing about Sagittarius men:
They don’t look at money as some sort of emotional symbol.
This is where a lot of horoscope signs get into all sorts of trouble. They look at money as a gateway to happiness. No, it’s not.
Unless you’re using money to buy experiences like a vacation or special training, most of the time, the stuff that you buy stop making you happy after a while.
You’d want to buy something bigger and better. If this wasn’t the case, then a lot of manufacturers wouldn’t be in business. A lot of luxury brands would have closed up shop a long time ago.
Sagittarius men and family
When it comes to family, Sagittarius people can form a solid bond.
What I mean by this is it’s very easy for families to become strangers and drift apart. Sagittarius people make for great connections.
When you call them, they will tell you what’s going on with other people, and then they would connect you with other members of your family.
They are great at reconciling family members who’ve had a fight. They really care about members of their family. They make for great family intermediaries.
In terms of being fathers, on the other hand, Sagittarius men need to work on being there for their children emotionally.
It’s not uncommon for a Sagittarius man to be emotionally distant. Oftentimes, he confuses putting food on the table with actually taking full care of his family.
Putting food on the table is just one small aspect of being a good father.
You have to be there emotionally, mentally, physically, financially, and spiritually.
All the factors should be there. Otherwise, the family is going to suffer.
My final thoughts on the Sagittarius men
In the big scheme of things, the Sagittarius man has a lot going for him. He really does.
Imagine if you were able to walk to any kind of social situation and not feel scared.
In fact, this is the real secret to the Sagittarius personality. It’s not that they are blessed with this magical personality that makes people like them. No.
It’s just the absence of social fear for the most part.
Again, this plays out in different ways among different Sagittarius men. Depending on when they were born, this trait might be strong, or it might be on the weak side.
Regardless, they all have this.
The secret to their ability to navigate their social circles is their lack of fear of social engagement.
This is the secret. Think about it, Capricorn people and Taurus people can be very social as well.
The problem is there is always that fear. It requires a little bit of effort on their part to get over this fear and to express their social side.
With the Sagittarius, they have to work less in overcoming this fear. This is their ace in the hole. This is what sets them apart.
Unfortunately, it also triggers a lot of negative aspects in the Sagittarius personality.
It’s very easy for them to take people for granted. It’s very easy for them to have a cavalier attitude regarding women.
After all, if you have a lot of women interested in you, where is the incentive to pick one and be loyal to her?
You would rather play around as long as possible. This can have of course negative effects on one’s personal development and emotional maturity.