What happens when you take somebody who seems to know what she wants and put her in a relationship with somebody who understands that he needs to make a decision but can’t seem to get around to it?
You get a match between the Taurus woman and Libra man of course!
When it comes to the love compatibility between these two signs you could be surprised at the results actually. On paper, this kind of wishy-washy mix is like mixing olive oil with balsamic vinegar. It might make for tasty vinaigrette but if you leave it in one place for too long, it will separate.
The reality is that a Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility has lot more going for it than what people might initially think. There’s a lot more than meets the eye.
If both partners put in the amount of time and emotional effort needed to mature the relationship, it can actually lead to a very happy place. Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility doesn’t necessarily have to be a study in contrast. It doesn’t have to stay a study of opposites. As the old, corny cheesy saying maybe opposites attract there’s a lot of truth to that saying.
Can Taurus Resist Libra’s Easy Charm?
Make no mistake about it, one of the most charming horoscope signs you will come across is the Libra.
Why? The Libra is basically everyone to everybody.
He can be quite a chameleon. This is not deliberate like the Gemini. This person is not putting on a show. That’s just the way the Libra is.
Why? The Libra is represented by a pair of scales. The pair of scales is of course hanging in the air. It’s always taking measurements. It’s always recalibrating itself.
In a very real sense, when you’re dealing with a Libra, you’re actually dealing with a mirror. This person is very skilled at mirroring the signals that you’re sending. If you’re being unfriendly and hostile, you’ll get some of that back.
If you’re being cheerful, you’ll get some of that back. If you’re a naturally optimistic person, you’ll get some of that back. At some level, this can be very frustrating especially if you want to truly know the Libra person at a deep and personally fulfilling level.
However, when it comes to just meeting people off the street or at a club somewhere, the Libra is easy to get along with. They have a very easy charm.
Taurus and the Frustrating Part of the Libra Personality
The frustrating part of the Libra personality is when you decide to get deeper. It’s like stepping on quicksand.
You might think that you’re stepping on sand where there are rocks underneath and it turns out there is water underneath and you will start sinking.
This is the case with the Libra. The Libra has a very quick intellect and they can also be very emotionally perceptive. The problem is not that they don’t have any depth; the problem is that they have so much depth it never fails to solidify.
Let me clarify: they’re always weighing things. They’re always saying on the other hand or they’re always trying to look at the other side of the equation. They think that they’re being smart when they’re doing this. They think that they’re being emotionally authentic and deep when they’re doing this.
What they’re actually doing is that they’re refusing to take responsibility for the emotional truths in their life. Let’s face it: being human beings, our core responsibility to ourselves and to others around us is to find our core truths. These are the things that we will stand on. These are the things that are solid in our lives. These are our principles.
You can always tell weak people in a room when they don’t have any principles. You can always tell the weak characters because there’s nothing that they would die for. They’re always soft, effeminate, weak, and essentially worthless. They’re the fodder of history.
Unfortunately, Libras tend to give that impression. It’s very hard for them to get off the fence. It’s hard for them to make a decision. All it takes for a Libra to take action is a strong personality. This strong person would control the Libra and manipulate the Libra. At the end of the day, the Libra feels betrayed. But guess what, you betrayed yourself.
You allowed yourself to get pimped. You allowed yourself to get played. This is what’s so frustrating about the Libra personality. It’s like living in a mental prison but you have the keys in your hand.
What’s wrong with this picture?
Why the Taurus Woman is so Driven
You might think that in terms of Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility that the Taurus woman is the person wearing the emotional pants in the relationship.
You would be absolutely wrong. You have to understand that the solid impression that the Taurus woman is giving out is really, to some level, an expression of deep-seated insecurities.
There’s a strong sense of inadequacy that she needs to project out. This might not always be conscious. You have to understand that the Taurus woman is a materialist sign. This means that these signs like the Taurus and Virgo tend to look at material things as proxies for emotional stability, emotional core, principles, and spiritual strength so on and so forth.
In other words, they look at the things that are temporary and essentially will not withstand the test of time as substitutes for things that truly matter.
A lot of this projected strength is exactly that, a projection.
It is a very ironic aspect of the Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility that the seemingly strong partner actually turns out to be just as directionless as the obviously wishy-washy Libra male partner.
Learning To Work With Each Other’s Strengths
With all that said the key to making the Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility truly succeed is to learn to work with each other’s strengths.
This may seem easier said than done, but the good news is that it’s actually quite obvious. The Taurus woman only needs to stay in the relationship for a few months to truly understand the Libra man. The Libra man, on the other hand, can easily figure out the Taurus woman.
Libra men, make no mistake about it, tend to be very intelligent, they tend to be emotionally attuned. They just have a tough time making a commitment.
So the Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility has an ace in the hole in the sense that both partners, if they want to, can easily figure each other out. This is a very strong starting point if both partners decide to work with each other’s strengths.
The Taurus is very driven, the Taurus can make decisions, and the Taurus can establish a framework from which informed decisions can be made.
The Libra man on the other hand is very good at gaining information and weighing information. This partnership can pay off not just in emotional terms but also financial terms and also in terms of health and long-term fulfillment.
The key here is to work with each other in such a way that you are pulling each up instead of dragging each other down.
I’m sorry to say it but the typical Libra analysis paralysis can pull the relationship down.
In a very certain way, Taurus woman and Libra man love compatibility really revolves around the Libra partner. If the Libra is willing to let go of his analysis paralysis and copy or be inspired by typical Taurus will power, great things can happen not just in his career, not just in his love life but also in his spiritual life and his personal life all in all.
We have to understand that in this life we can either be victims or victors. It really is a choice. You can start to make progress or you can continue to make excuses.
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