Virgo woman personality traits and characteristics are analysed in this special report. The personality profile of the Virgo woman is an interesting study in contrasts in 2014. If you want to understand this delicate, beautiful and changing personality type read on.
Usually it’s very problematic to try to frame an astrological signs personality based on year. The hard reality is that, we are pretty much stuck in our personality regardless of what year it is. However, when it comes to the horoscope, different years bring different interfaces of cosmic energies. These cosmic energies causes vibration in a person’s life and it can impact finances, romance, career, education, you name it.
Whilst our personalities and characteristics tend to be fixed the forces affecting our personality, can produce distortions that affect our material reality.
This is definitely true of Virgo woman personality in 2014. 2014 is shaping up to be a year of challenges for all astrological signs. Virgo male personalities will face exactly the same challenges as the Virgo woman in 2014.
The good news is that, challenges are really opportunities in disguise. It all depends on how you play it.
Think of your fortune in 2014 as a massive cosmological game of poker. You might get some bad cards, but if you play your cards right, you still might end up the winner. It all depends on how you work with the hard boundaries that your astrological sign has given you. Here’s how the Virgo woman personality will play out in 2014.
The Virgo Women Personality and Mr. Right
Virgo women personality types tend to have this imaginary ghost of the perfect man. They might not want to admit it, they might not even realize it, but they are often chasing a ghost. They are living their lives running around in circles, trying to find an ideal person called mister right. I address this issue in my report on how a Virgo woman can improve her life in 2014.
This should not be surprising because Virgo women are still Virgo after all.
That is the defining hallmark of the Virgo female – they are purists, they are puritanical in terms of ideals. They would stop at nothing in trying to reorganize the world based on the way it should be instead of the way it is.
If there is anything you need to understand about Virgo people, whether men or women, that’s it, it’s all about perfection. Unfortunately for the Virgo woman, the world is imperfect.
Everybody knows that the world is imperfect. Things change, people change, friendships fall apart, that’s the way it is. Unfortunately the Virgo woman personality has a tough time accepting this. Hence, the ghost of mister right is alive and well in her mind.
Give Yourself Permission to Let Go of Past Disappointments
Virgo women have been disappointed in the past.
The common theme of that disappointment is that, inevitably, the guy that she thought is going to sweep her off her feet turns out to be the wrong guy. Also, she might get into a relationship and think the guy is a certain way and it turned out that he is completely different.
In many cases, the Virgo woman blames the other person. Either she felt cheated or she felt lied to. The reality is, you cannot go into a relationship, trying to reinvent other person. You cannot go into a relationship thinking that this person is what you pretend that person is. This is a major problem with Virgo traits.
If you go about your relationships this way, you will be disappointed. This is the manifestation of the fact that the Virgo woman personality is always chasing the ghost of mister right.
Either she may trick herself into thinking that she has met mister right in the past or that mister right is somebody that will appear in the future if she looks hard enough.
The reality is that, if you are looking for perfection, you will always be disappointed. It really doesn’t getting any simpler than that. It is all a logical deduction from the reality that there is no such thing as perfection, it doesn’t exist and it never will exist.
This is why, if you have these typical Virgo woman personality traits, you have to give yourself permission to let go of your past disappointments.
If you were looking for mister right in the past and it turned out to be mister wrong, forgive yourself and move on. Don’t let that disappointment poison your relationships in the present and your relationships in the future.
Living For Today Can Help
The problem with living your life based on ideals and picture of perfection, is that you’re not really living, you’re not living for today.
You are living for the future, you are living for tomorrow. Unfortunately, reality happens today, life takes place today.
If you have the typical Virgo woman personality, you have to wrap your mind around this concept, you have to really train yourself to appreciate what you have today.
It will not only help you avoid typical disappointments that have hounded you throughout your life, but it can also help prepare you for a brighter future, in terms of relationships, in terms of your career, in terms of your education.
By quitting waiting and getting into the habit of enjoying the moment, you go a long way in living your life to its fullest potential. If you’re serious and honest with yourself, you would realize that most of your disappointments were the product of your own mistaken ideals and mistaken perceptions.
Other people didn’t cheat you, other people didn’t go about to hurt you, you brought it on yourself. This is a terrible blow to the ego and as a result, the typical Virgo woman personality lives for tomorrow, never for today.
Learn to Appreciate Surface Reality
When you look at people and accept them for what they are and look at situations based on how they appear, you’re not selling out. You are not being shallow, you’re not being cheap, you are not lying to yourself. In many cases, what you see is what you get, that’s how reality is.
Unfortunately, if you have the typical Virgo woman personality, you tend to think that you are the deepest person in the room.
You tend to think that you are the most emotionally authentic person in the room. Well, I’ve got news for you; it’s all in your head.
Purity doesn’t exist. In many cases, people are shallower than we assumed.
In many cases when somebody’s feeling angry, somebody’s feeling sad or somebody’s feeling happy, that’s because they’re angry, sad or happy. In other words, what you see is what you get. Learn to appreciate surface reality. There’s a lot more reality on the surface than deep underneath, so get used to it.
Learn the Limits of Loyalty
If you have typical Virgo woman personality characteristics and traits, you’d probably had an experience where you felt back stabbed or betrayed. I often see the relationship between a Virgo and Scorpio end in such a way and it is very sad.
You felt that in the past, somebody that was supposed to be loyal to you betrayed you that this is why, you currently feel disappointed.
It’s hard for you to trust people.
The reality is that there are limits to loyalty. When you look at the world in terms of ideals, you put unrealistic limits on loyalty. As a result, you might be expecting loyalty when you don’t really have a right to expect loyalty. For the Virgo woman personality to flourish in 2014, you really have to learn the limits of loyalty and stop being thinned skinned. Stop feeling that every small criticism is a judgment against you and stop caring about what other people think.
Instead, focus on what is real, focus on the real limits of loyalty. Otherwise, you will continue to view every criticism as personal judgment or attack against you. This is one key element of Virgo woman personality that can really limit your potential to find love in 2014.
2014 may have a lot of challenges, but it also has a lot of opportunities for the Virgo woman. Getting over these fairly common Virgo limitations, you can go a long way in making your Virgo woman personality flourish in the coming year.
The good news is that, this is all learned behaviour. If you learn to think this way, you can unlearn it. While your horoscope, fixed certain boundaries on your personality, there are certain areas where you can make modifications which can push you forward in your relationships and your career.
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