If you’re a Capricorn woman, and you’ve been dating many different guys, you probably might find a guy you’re extremely happy with. You might think that this is the guy you’ve been waiting for.
I really can’t blame you. Looking for Mr. Right is a very hard task.
A lot of women go through their whole life settling for the wrong guy. In fact, many of them give up looking for the man who will make them happy.
In many cases, they just settle for a guy that would make them feel content.
You have to understand that there’s a big difference with being content and being truly happy.
Unfortunately, too women feel that they have to settle because they’re getting older or there’s simply not enough time.
If you’re a Capricorn woman, the tendency to settle is extremely strong. Why?
That’s part of the Capricorn nature. You’re a materialist sign. You are very practical.
You pay attention to practical concerns like money, social status, and upward mobility.
If you find a guy who’s very responsible and who takes care of your material needs, it’s very, very easy for you to overlook a lot of otherwise negative signals.
It’s very easy for you to get stuck with a person that’s actually very bad for you over the long run.
Here are four signs that you’re not with the right man. This doesn’t mean that he’s a horrible person, or you need to get away from him immediately.
What this does mean is he needs to mature or develop. Otherwise, you might need to exit.
You can still be friends but having this man in your life the way he is might do more harm than good.
He only talks about himself all the time
It’s very easy for Capricorn women to be taken for granted. Why? You prize stability over love.
It’s very easy for you to train yourself to fall in love.
In fact, if you think that all your material needs are being taken care of, it’s very easy for you to hypnotize yourself in thinking that your emotional needs are also being taken care of.
Unfortunately, you’re simply playing a mind game on yourself. There’s a big difference between taking care of a person financially and physically and taking care of a person spiritually and emotionally.
For true love to truly happen, somebody has to give you spiritual, emotional, financial, and physical sustenance.
It means you need a complete package. Unfortunately, if a guy only gives you 1 out of 5, that’s never good enough.
However, the typical Capricorn woman would often read financial support as meaning emotional, spiritual, and other kinds of support.
This is your Achilles Heel because you are a materialist sign. It doesn’t mean you’re materialistic. It just means that you are a practical sign.
One dead giveaway is when the guy keeps talking about himself. That’s all he talks about. Reject that kind of guy.
It means that in his mind, it means that the world revolves around him. This is a serious problem because this could mean that once you stop being useful to him, you become useless.
It’s very easy for him to leave you behind. It’s not uncommon for Capricorn women to get married in their 20s only to get divorced in their 40s and worst of all, the guy then ends up with a younger woman.
If you don’t want to ride that roller coaster, you might want to pay attention to this sign.
If the guy keeps talking all the time about himself, start looking for the exit.
The focus is on what is important to him
Relationships are all about making each other grow and all about both of you.
If your relationship is just about the guy talking about what’s important to him, there is a serious imbalance in your relationship.
It’s very hard for you to both mature in your relationship. You have to remember that it’s a two-way street. It’s about both of you growing and reaching mutual maturity.
Unfortunately, this is not going to happen if the agenda is set by the other partner. The focus is no longer on us but on me.
Well, I’m sorry to break this to you, but “we” is never spelled “I.” I hope you see where this is headed.
You need to have a voice in the relationship.
Unfortunately, many Capricorn women get blinded by money.
If the guy is loaded and seems to make money out of thin air, it’s very easy to excuse a high level of egotism and justify his high degree of selfishness with all sorts of excuses.
You might be thinking to yourself, “Well, he’s selfish precisely because that’s what made him successful. Who am I to argue with success?”
Well, I’m sorry to tell you this, but if you don’t put your foot down now, chances are he will outgrow you.
You’re just another pretty face in the crowd. Guys who are so full of themselves, and our powerful and rich can easily find another pretty face. I hope you know what I’m getting at.
He keeps talking you into following his agenda
This is actually the worst thing that can happen. There are certain types of guys who seem they are very caring.
They seem like they actually want to hear what you want and what your feedback is. They seem to be truly to be interested in what you have to say.
But this is just surface appearance. In reality, they are completely sold on their agenda.
In fact, they see no other space for competing agendas. Their relationship is all about their agenda.
This is why they spend a lot of time, effort, and energy talking you into following his lead. His lead is not a suggestion.
It’s actually a dictation but he’s very, very persuasive. He appeals to your emotion and your materialist nature.
Regardless of what he does, you end up precisely where he wants you to be.
This type of relationship is very manipulative, and it’s also one-sided. This kind of relationship does nobody any favors.
Unfortunately, this is kind of person that is almost very hard for you to resist. Why?
He has a way of making his agenda fit your particular insecurities.
You have to stand your ground. You must not let yourself be blinded by material forms of success.
You have to understand that real relationships mean emotional success. It means emotional partnerships.
Regardless how powerful, rich, loaded, or how promising this person is, it is no excuse for you to sacrifice your personal growth and emotional well-being for him.
You need to have your own agenda as well. Your relationship must factor in your own personal agenda.
He’s a perfectionist
Perfectionists live in an ideal world. The world is far from perfect. The world cannot be divided between black-and-white situations.
Unfortunately, perfectionists like to divide the world into black and white. They like to reduce reality into black-and-white situations.
As you can already tell, this leads into all sorts of trouble. If you’re with a perfectionist, it’s very easy for you to be typecast or to be put into one camp or other.
This spells a lot of future problems.
You might want to stay away from this guy because it can lead to a lot of imbalance in your relationship in the future.
Your happiness is your responsibility. You cannot keep kicking the can down the road if you see any of the signs raised above.
These signs are real. This can lead to serious problems in your future if you’re not careful.
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