Gemini people, historically, have been misunderstood.
Whether we are talking about a Gemini man or woman, it does not really matter.
Gemini people across the board are easy to misunderstand. In fact, they have been misunderstood and maligned throughout history.
This really is too bad because Gemini people are very charming, quite creative, and able to see connections when most people cannot see much connections.
To say that they can be an asset to any team is an understatement. They bring a lot to the table, a lot of dynamism, and they can definitely bring a lot of excitement.
To top it all off, they also have a great sense of humor. What is not to love?
Unfortunately, the typical Gemini has a dark side as well. It is not uncommon for people to feel that their Gemini partner betrayed them or stabbed them in the back and that they are liars and cannot be trusted.
The reason for this is the fact the Geminis are complicated personalities.
They have different aspects of their personality. If you do not get this, you are really playing with fire.
The worst part is that it will be all your fault and not your Gemini partner’s. Why?
You did not take the time to fully know this person. By looking at all the different aspects of their personality, you would not be surprised when those different sides manifest themselves.
This really is the source of all the historical misunderstanding of the Gemini personality.
People simply did not give themselves the time and opportunity to truly know their Gemini partner.
Instead, they saw one aspect that they like and they generalize that personality to reflect all of the Gemini’s personalities. It is like their Gemini partners will thinly stereotype them as fitting only a few strains of their personality.
This is very unfair. We all have different aspects and parts of our personality.
For somebody to truly love and appreciate us, they must know and, at least, accept all of these different aspects.
This is not the case with Geminis in a relationship. Most people are dismissive of other aspects of their personalities. Not surprisingly, the Gemini would then manifest or show these different aspects and all hell breaks loose.
This happens to Gemini men. They are accused of being cheaters and unfaithful.
However, in reality, they are not hiding anything from you. In fact, the signs are quite common.
Here are 3 signs that he is cheating on you.
– He keeps saying that you have changed
The funny about the Gemini personality is that a lot of people feel that they turn on people.
Something happens and all of a sudden, a completely different person is staring at you in the face. It is as if you are dealing with 2 completely different people.
This should not be a surprise. After all, the Gemini is based on the horoscope sign of the twin. It looks like the same person, but we are talking about 2 totally different personalities.
Gemini guys who are cheating will try to turn the tables on you.
They know that people freak out when their personalities change, so what they would do to try and conceal infidelity is to say that you have changed.
In fact, there is probably a lot of truth in this, but, 9 times out of 10, it is really to try to throw you off their tracks.
This is definitely a clear sign that this person is being unfaithful.
– He always seems to put the blame on you
Gemini men know that, in most of their relationships, they are the ones who are being blamed and looked at as the cause of the relationship falling apart.
Again, they would try to flip the script by trying to put the blame on you.
This is, unfortunately, very easy to do because nobody is perfect. Everybody has their own set of weaknesses and shortcomings.
Considering how intelligent most Geminis are, it does not really take them long to figure out your soft spot.
They would always figure out a way to blame you for the breakdown of the relationship. However, deep down inside, they know that they are also partly to blame.
– It takes a while to return your calls
Another clear sign that your Gemini man is cheating on you is when he takes a long time to return your calls.
It is not like he is trying to duck you, what he is really trying to do is that he is trying to figure out how much your relationship means to him.
This is another common symptom of the Gemini mindset. They can be quite indecisive, it takes them a long time to actually commit and instead of confronting the issue head on, they would rather postpone it by not talking about it.
This is why it takes a while for this person to return your call.
In many cases, this is not a sure sign of infidelity. However, it can definitely lead to that situation.
At the very least, it is a sign that something has broken down in your relationship.
Whether you are afraid of a Gemini cheating on you or you are a Gemini partner who is afraid your partner is cheating, one thing is clear: you need to communicate more clearly with your partner.
All fidelity issues arise from a key imbalance that infects any kind of relationship. Once a partner feels that he or she isn’t being listened to or properly valued, the heart wanders.
The mind becomes open to the idea of getting from someone else the thing that you aren’t getting from your partner.
The key to keeping your relationship intact is to improve your communication level and channels so things don’t deteriorate.
Open communications enable your partner to know all the different sides of your personality so your partner isn’t thrown for a loop when that infamous “Gemini split personality” shows up.
Don’t deny its possibility. You know it will happen sooner rather than later.
Instead of trying to duck it, make provisions for it.