Have you heard of the book Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus?
There’s a lot of truth to that book.
The brains of men and women are wired differently. We tend to look at the world through different lenses.
Of course, our perceptions impact our emotional reading of the world. This emotional reading, in turn, impacts how we respond to the world.
You have to keep this in mind when looking at how different Libra women and men respond to the issue of jealousy.
Jealousy is kind of a tricky emotion because it focuses on ownership.
You get jealous when you feel that somebody is enjoying something you feel you own or deserve.
Normally, people experience jealousy in their careers, in school, or in their social circles.
In a relationship, however, jealousy can be a serious problem.
You have to remember that if you are in a relationship, you have all the right in the world to be jealous. Why?
When somebody commits to you and says that they want to be in a relationship with you, then you have the right to expect loyalty from them.
You have a right to expect that they would focus their attention on you and not waste it on somebody else.
The fact that they committed to that relationship gives you the right to be jealous.
Never be embarrassed of feeling jealous about the person you’re in a relationship with. You have all the right in the world to do that.
However, it’s very easy for jealousy to throw a relationship off the tracks. It can really be explosive.
In fact, it can lead to all sorts of arguments.
Things can get heated very quickly. Your relationship might even blow up because of misconceptions and misunderstandings regarding jealousy.
As I have implied, there is a right way and a wrong way to be jealous.
If you are in a relationship, you have all the right in the world to be jealous. It just depends on how you go about being jealous.
This is the deal killer for most people.
The reason why many relationships break up is because people just don’t know how to be jealous.
They know that they have a right to be jealous. But they don’t know why they’re jealous, and they don’t know the right way to be jealous.
Just like with everything else in life, there is a right way and a wrong way of doing things.
If you want your relationship to succeed, you have to be jealous for the right reasons and be jealous in the right way.
If you’re in a relationship with a Libra, this can get a little bit tricky.
Different horoscope signs have different reasons for being jealous.
Some horoscope signs are more emotional. Other horoscope signs are more materialist. Other horoscope signs are more idealistic.
You have to understand that in life, the reason why people do something is as important as the things that they do.
This is very important to know because if you are trying to fix a problem and don’t have a clear grounding as to why people are behaving a certain way, chances are the solution that you come up with might be the wrong one.
At best, you would get partial results. At worst, it can make the problem even worse.
If you’re in a relationship with a Libra, you have to understand that Libra women and Libra men get jealous for different reasons.
Pay attention to the information below about Libra people because it can go a long way in helping you deal with jealousy issues in your relationship.
Libra Men Get Jealous About Status and Social Standing
While Libra men can get jealous about emotional issues, for the most part, they are jealous about how other people think.
Put more specifically, they develop jealousy if they feel that their social status or standing is jeopardized by whatever it is you are doing.
For example, if everybody knows that you are flirting with your ex-boyfriend, that is going to trigger a lot of Libra male jealousy. Why?
First, you shouldn’t be doing that.
You should be emotionally loyal to him. You shouldn’t look back at the past and be buddy-buddies with somebody you used to make love with.
Second, Libra men might think that this might make them look weak in the eyes of other people. This might make them look like they are the cuckold in the relationship.
They really get off on the deep end when they feel that somebody is putting one over them.
If you don’t want your Libra man to get jealous, be clear as to why he has these feelings.
Explain to him what you’re doing and maybe stop what you’re doing.
Libra Women Get Jealous About Emotional Ownership
When it comes to jealousy, Libra women are quite conventional. They get jealous for the right reasons.
As I have mentioned earlier, you have a fully justifiable right to be jealous if your partner is flirting with somebody.
They shouldn’t be doing that because they’ve committed to you.
They’ve given you ownership over their emotions, so to speak. You have a right to be jealous.
Libra women get jealous for this very basic reason.
Emotions are very big with them. They don’t want to feel that you are wasting your emotional resources in somebody else.
Even if you’re not flirting with that other person and there is no lovemaking component, Libra women can still get jealous. Why?
They view you spending time with somebody else, either online or even over the phone, as some sort of emotional betrayal.
To them, that amount of personal resources and attention you’re spending on other people should be spent on them.
This may seem like it makes sense at some level. However, it’s very easy for Libra women to go overboard.
It’s very easy for them to destroy the boundaries between your personalities and for them to end up feeling that they own you.
You might want to set clear ground rules as far emotional lines are concerned.
Otherwise, this issue can lead to serious misunderstandings time and time again.
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