All women have an internal goddess. I am not talking about a deity.
I am talking about the essence of womanhood.
This is a woman that can make things happen. This is a woman that is able to love and is deserving of a lot of love.
This is a woman that is capable of being happy and also capable of giving a lot of happiness.
In other words, every woman has an innate ability to live their lives to their highest potential. This is very easy to understand.
Unfortunately, most women do not live this way. Most women live lives of worry, frustration, anxiety and, in many cases, pain.
What gives? Well, the truth is women are afraid to access their goddess personality.
They are afraid to access that part of themselves that not only can make them live life to their highest potential, but demand actions to making that happen.
This really goes to the core of the problem.
If you tap into a certain inner strength that you have, you have to remember that it is not just about you getting benefits.
It is not just about you walking away with goodies. It does not work that way.
With great power comes great responsibility.
For you to tap into a source of inner power, you have to do whatever it takes to get to that power.
There is a ticket that you have to pay. There is a price for admission.
Most people feel that they deserve to be happy, so they look at life as this some great entitlement program where they just need to be born and guess what, happiness will be put right in their lap.
It does not work that way. The world does not care what you think you deserve. The world does not care what your motivations or intentions are.
The world only cares about what you do. That is right. The world cares about performance.
If you are a Pisces woman, it is very easy for you to fall into the common trap of thinking that you are entitled to be happy and that you are entitled to be treated like a goddess.
No, to be treated like a goddess, you need to be a goddess.
Here is the Pisces woman’s guide to being a goddess that men worship and adore.
Know that they need you more than you need them
Pisces can be very needy. In fact, your clingy nature repels people.
These are people that could otherwise be loving partners. These are people that could otherwise do you a lot of good.
However, you hang on so tightly and you run after them so boldly that you scare them away.
A person might be truly in love with you, but you might be so emotionally needy and so clingy that it turns his love into a deep and profound sense of annoyance and irritation.
If you do not watch yourself, it can easily turn into hatred.
To short circuit this often automatic descent into clingy and needy mindset, you just need to remind yourself of one fundamental fact:
Men need you more than you need them.
If you understand this, then you would not be running so eagerly towards guys that you think look cute or might have a lot to offer you emotionally.
You can play it cool. You can relax a little bit and stand your ground.
You would be surprise as to how much better your romantic results would be if you simply resolve to be more self-contained as far as your emotions are concerned.
Know that You are Smart Enough
Pisces women think that the primary benefit they bring to the table is their heart.
They are very emotionally connected people. They are very emotionally intense and emotionally authentic.
This is all well and good, but do not ever underestimate your intellectual capacity.
You are very smart because you allow your heart to work with your brain.
There are a lot of horoscope signs that are completely rational, but they are very cold inside and, as a result, they often do not factor in the human element.
Not surprisingly, their decisions are half baked or outright failures.
You, on the other hand, have tremendous talent for tapping into other people’s emotions.
You can see where they care coming from. You get what their concerns are.
When you factor these in to your decisions, nine times out of ten you hit a bull’s eye.
Go with that. Take more leaps of faith as far as your decision making and your brain power is concerned.
I know this might not sound natural or you do not hear this as often as you would like, but you are smart enough.
Know that You Have What it Takes
It is very easy for Pisces to become emotionally clingy to friends because they feel that when they have enough friends, they have this protective cocoon.
At the end of the day, they can rest on the fact that somebody will bail them out. They can always rely on friends giving them a helping hand.
I am sorry to break this to you, but if that is how you view your friends, you are essentially just using them.
Really, that is all you are doing. You need to step away from that mindset.
Instead, learn to depend on yourself more often. I know this is hard to believe, but you have what it takes.
You are strong enough and capable enough to take care of your problems on your own. I know that it is something you probably do not want to hear, but it is true.
I know it is scary, but you might want to try standing on your own two feet a bit more often.
You will be surprised as to how addictive it could be. You would be surprised as to how much stronger you will become. Why?
A sense of control is quite addictive.
The more you feel you are in control, the happier you become. It puts in an upward spiral.
Part of the reason why you are always feeling imbalanced, depressed and somewhat anxious is because of the fact that you have convinced yourself that you do not have what it takes.
That is complete hogwash. That is not true.
You do have what it takes.
Stop settling for feeling anxious all the time. Stop settling for depending on others.
Do things your own way at your own terms more often. You would be surprised as to how much happier you would be.
Know that You are Fun to be Around
Since you have an emotional map of the world, you are able to press the right emotional buttons with people.
You know how to cheer up people. You know exactly what to say and when to say it. This makes you fun to be around.
At the very least, you create a very welcoming and nurturing environment around you.
This is your strength. This is your gift. Celebrate it.
Do not be ashamed of it. Make it a cornerstone of your self-confidence. Make it a key to higher self esteem.
By feeling better about yourself, you can become the goddess that men worship.
Unfortunately, you are so often riddled with low self-esteem and self-doubt that men abuse you and use you, instead of worshiping you.
You deserve better.
However, nobody can love you if you do not love yourself first. Nobody can respect you if you do not respect yourself first.
I hope all these truths are abundantly clear, so you can take action on them starting today.
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