The Pisces woman, like the Pisces man, is a very emotional creature.
Of course, different Pisces people show their emotions in very different ways. In some cases, you can tell a person is actually a Pisces if this person seems very level headed and often very cold.
As a matter of fact, in reality, he or she is having a tough time inside because of all the emotions raging underneath the surface.
Don’t ever confuse Pisces’ emotionality with weakness, they are far from weak. In fact, their ability to connect with their emotional side is one of their biggest strengths.
They are able to empathize and able to send out the right signals so they can draw the right friends in business or competitive settings. They can master this art to their advantage.
They have an amazing way of getting stronger people or people higher up in the organization to take them under their wing.
With that said, Pisces people are very often hard on themselves.
It is common to find a Pisces woman being her own worst critic. She might think that it is the end of the world but in reality, she is doing quite well.
There seems to be a disconnect between how things really are and how a Pisces woman reads things.
This is due to the fact that Pisces women tend to look for emotional authenticity; this is their touchstone and their main frame of reference.
Other horoscope signs are more materialistic and are more idealistic. For the Pisces, it is all about emotions and all about being right with who you are deep down inside. This might sound all grade and everything.
However, taken to extremes, it can lead to quite a bit of personal disappointment, discouragement, and depression. Keep the factors above in mind as you read this definitive guide to the Pisces woman.
Pisces women in love
Pisces women are really great lovers.
They really are, not only in terms of emotional commitment, but also, they really try to understand who you are. This is one of the core strengths of the Pisces in dating.
The Pisces are probably the most people friendly sign of the horoscopes. Don’t think that this is purely for an altruistic reason.
Sure, most Pisces people truly are genuinely compassionate and truly care about other people but it is also partly defensive.
By caring for other people, Pisces are banking on the fact that people are reciprocal in nature. In other words, if I am kind to you and you are a normal person, you probably will be kind back to me.
It takes really a twisted sense of values for a person to replace kindness with cruelty.
Alternatively, somebody may have helped you out and then you repay that person by stabbing him/her in the back.
Pisces are very big on reciprocity. They may not have money and they might not help you out with financial resources but you can definitely count on them to be there emotionally for you.
At the very least, you would have a shoulder to cry on.
This makes them very popular both in terms of friendships as well as love relationships.
The downside to Pisces women in love is that they have high expectations of themselves which is often mirrored in to an expectation of their partner.
There is a lot of passive-aggressive behavior, as far as emotional requirements are concerned.
If you are a Pisces woman, it is much better to just say flat out what you are looking for. If you are in love with a Pisces woman, you really have to get her to talk so you can give her the kind of love she is looking for.
It really all boils down to communication, it is not something that cannot be solved.
Pisces women and relationships
As mentioned above, Pisces women set the bar pretty high, as far as their love relationship is concerned.
They tend to navigate the world in terms of emotions.
Accordingly, they tend to measure people based on emotional authenticity, as well as emotional intensity. This can be a serious problem.
There are some horoscope signs that are not very emotionally expressive. However, if you pay attention to whatever they do, they are actually showing you how much they love you.
For example, a Capricorn might not be very big on saying “I love you” every few seconds. However, you can tell by his actions that he is more than willing to sacrifice himself for your happiness.
In many cases, guys would rather be judged by what they do instead of the words that come out of their mouths.
The problem is that most Pisces would like guys to at least say from time to time in their lives that they love the Pisces woman.
I hope you see where the conflict is in this situation. The good news is that the situation is not something that is incapable of fixing.
All it takes is some honesty and clarity on the part of both partners.
Early on, just tell your partner whether you are the Pisces partner or the non-Pisces partner.
What are you looking for? What are your expectations? Where do you want this relationship to go?
What makes you happy?
In this way, the rules are clear and everybody knows what they are working with.
The big drawback to Pisces women is they often fall into this trap of thinking, “If you love me, you’d understand me.”
Well, I am sorry to break this to you but most people are not mind readers. That is just a fact. Get over it.
Pisces women and friendships
Pisces can be very, very good friends not just because they are loyal but because they are more than that.
They are able to keep secrets confidential and they are not going to hold your secrets against you to try to gain some sort of advantage. They are not very good at blackmailing others.
They are also great on providing a shoulder to cry on when you are going through tough times.
However, just like with any other horoscope signs, they do have drawbacks.
The drawback of the Pisces woman is that if you want her friendship, you have to be emotionally authentic. This might seem pretty simple and pretty straight forward but it is not.
Most people are often conflicted and don’t even understand the range of emotions that they are feeling. Much less, how those emotions are being broadcast to the rest of the world.
This is where misunderstandings between Pisces women and their friends take place. She may feel that you are being emotionally authentic and that you are holding back from her.
She is giving you everything but you are holding back. She feels that your friendship is uneven or unbalanced.
In reality, you are going through a tough time or you yourself are going through changes.
Again, when it comes to Pisces women, it is all about communicating clearly with them. As long as you do not violate your word or go against the stuff that you say, you should be fine.
Pisces women and lovemaking
Lovemaking, contrary to popular belief, is not physical. In fact, it is only 10% physical and 90% emotional.
Since this is the real nature of lovemaking, Pisces woman makes really great lovers. They really put all their energy into it and lovemaking becomes a really emotionally fulfilling and energizing experience.
If you have had an intercourse with different kind of women under different horoscope signs, an intercourse with a Pisces woman really takes your definition of intimacy to a much higher level.
Of course, not all Pisces women are like this. Immature Pisces women or younger Pisces women really have not fully cultivated their keen sense of emotional authenticity.
Many of them are dealing with insecurities and are dealing with deep and profound fears regarding a sense of inadequacy.
Whatever it is, it is all about maturity, in terms of lovemaking.
The Pisces woman’s highest goal should be to reach a mature level of understanding regarding the proper relationship between physicality and emotionality.
This is how you become a better lover. This is also how you can teach your partner to become a better lover.
Pisces women and career
Pisces women are very big on nurturing other people.
This is why they make great executive assistants and great vice presidents. However, when it comes to the top spot, their record is kind of spotty.
They are very good at providing background or filling in the blanks. But when it comes to actually setting the agenda, they may get too caught up into politics, on how different personalities interact.
In other words, they get too caught up into interpersonal rivalries, pet peeves, and all sorts of territorial issues.
It is usual for Pisces women to start off really well in an organization and all of a sudden fit a peak and fail to progress beyond that point.
The good news is that as long as you are honest with yourself and as long as you have a clear understanding of your strong points, you can quickly change career positioning.
I do not mean change to another industry nor change to a completely different job, I am only talking about positioning.
In other words, you can become an executive assistant or an executive vice president.
You are more like the person who is good at filling in the ink, but another person has to lay down the pencil outline. I hope you get the analogy.
If you focus on this, you can have a truly rewarding career.
Pisces women and money
Let’s face it, all horoscope signs have a strong spot and a weak spot. When it comes to Pisces women, money is their weak spot.
They tend to spend emotionally, just as some people eat emotionally. Pisces women tend to feel that they owe it to themselves to reward themselves. This is good in the proper context and if you do not do it all that often.
However, if you feel like you have to reward yourself every other day, don’t be surprised if your credit card is maxed out. This is the sad state of financial affairs of many Pisces women.
It can easily become an addiction.
Moreover, it can easily lead to all sorts of emotional impulses. It is common for them to go shopping when they are feeling down or discouraged. Eventually, the act of shopping triggered all these positive emotions.
It can easily lead to a downward addictive spiral.
If you are a Pisces woman and you understand how hard it is to earn money, you might want to pay attention to these factors. You might want to work on breaking these linkages.
You might want to identify and connect a certain emotional state with the act of spending.
Pisces women and family
When it comes to being mothers, Pisces women make the best moms. They can be firm, they can lay down the rules. There is no problem with that.
However, a child needs full emotional nourishment as well. We are not just talking about making sure that the child has housing, shelter, food, and all the necessities.
We are talking about something more emotional.
Nourishment turns a child into a great adult. Emotional nourishment is what makes a person a truly good person.
Pisces women understand this. This is why they look at family relationships primarily in terms of emotional nourishment.
This can also be their biggest drawback; they have high expectations of their family members.
However, as you probably already know not all sorts of things happen in life.
We may not be able to put in the right amount of time with our loved ones. We may not always be there for them for whatever reason. We may not be able to give our loved ones 100% of our attention.
Many Pisces women, especially when they are younger, really take this to heart. They really take it hard.
As a result, they can sometimes be emotionally traumatized and this can lead to all sorts of bad choices. Worst of all, it can lead to unrealistic expectations, as far as their own families are concerned.
My final thoughts on the Pisces woman
On the whole, the Pisces woman is primed for success, whether you are looking at a career or emotional success in your relationships. You have the raw ingredients.
You have a great gift that is quite distinct to you.
However, you sometimes take things to the extremes. Sometimes, you go overboard and you let your emotions get the best of you.
This is your biggest challenge.
As long as you are able to maintain perspective, you will gain that sense of control that leads to greater fulfillment and happiness.
It is all about maintaining a balance between your emotional world and the world around you.