Libra people have a tough time committing. They really have a difficult time in getting off the fence.
A lot of this is due to the fact that Libra people have a tough time in making a decision in the first place. They simply cannot seem to make a quick decision.
They always feel that they have to revisit each side of any equation several times.
We are not just talking about getting a thorough understanding of both sides of an argument, but we are talking about something more obsessive and repeatedly going over the same stuff again, again, and to make matters worse, they would wait for additional information.
Of course, the more information that comes, the longer it takes for them to make a decision. Even if that information is not forth worth coming, they still figure out a way to hold off on making a decision.
This, of course, drives many people crazy when dealing with Libras. They drive their bosses, business partners, and worst of all, romantic partners crazy.
If you are a Libra and are trying to get over a nasty break up, you need to keep this aspect of your personal life in mind.
This is the driver of your personality. Different horoscope signs have different personality drivers and this is the set of issues that drive you forward.
Depending on how you look at it, it might even be driving you downward or into the ground.
The following tips on how to get over a nasty break up are informed by and arise from this central conflict in your personality.
– Trust your intuition more
I know that this is going to come out as some sort of unwelcome advice, but this is probably the best advice that you will ever get. Libra people are not exactly known for being intuitive.
In fact, they are the exact opposite.
They think that by simply going over facts and studying the situation over and over again, they can increase the likelihood that the outcome of their decision would be a positive one.
What they are really trying to do is to achieve some sort of mental control over the future.
As you can probably already tell, this is going to be an exercise in futility. It is just not going to happen.
Nobody can control the future. People can tell the future, but they cannot control it.
As much as you want to run away from it or deny it, it is going to happen. In many cases, it will happen in a way you least expect it.
Unfortunately, the more that Libras try to get over their nasty break up by thinking about the future and worrying about getting hurt again, the more likely that they will get hurt.
The best thing you can do is to simply trust your gut more. If you are completely honest with yourself, you would realize that in the times when you trusted your intuition, as far as your personal relationships are concerned, 9 times out of 10, you made the right call.
In a vast majority of cases, by trusting your gut, you ended up at the right place. You need to always come back to this fact.
Instead of focusing solely on how bad you got burned in the past, focus instead on the times you got things right.
You would be surprised as to how emotionally intelligent you are. Trust your intuition more and you would be amazed as to how this simple tip can, not only help you overcome a nasty break up, but end up with a better relationship.
– Learn to lose yourself in the moment
As much as Libras would hate to admit it, they are worry warts. They think that worrying about something is the same as doing something about a problem.
As you can probably already tell, this does not make any sense. It is like trying to control the weather by chewing gum. There is no connection.
The more you worry, the more you work yourself into the ground and things do not really change.
You have to understand that for you to effect positive change in your life in the here and now, you have to be in full control and have a high sense of personal power.
This means that you have to increase your level of awareness. You do not have to be super intelligent or a deeply profound person. You do not need any of that.
You only need to be aware of what is going on in your life right now and you can then piece things together. It is these interconnections and relationships that lead to the right answers.
The right answers cannot be arrived by simply worrying about them to death.
You only end up stressing yourself out and all of that anxiety is not worth it. If anything, it makes your problems worse by you constantly going over things in the past.
In your mind, you are simply going over your past hurts. Instead of letting those past disappointments and heartbreaks fade into the emotional sunset, you drag them back out of the emotional closet and they are fresh again.
It is like opening a wound over and over again.
By learning how to lose yourself in the moment, you increase your level of emotional awareness and you are able to put things in proper prospective.
Having the ability to look at things in the proper perspective is the first step to real healing and emotional recovery.
Put simply, Libras have a tough time with the concept of faith. They believe they can reason and research themselves out of uncertainty. This rarely works out for them.
They know that sometime, somehow they have to get off the fence and make a decision.
This requires faith. This requires taking that leap based on the assurance that what you believe will actually pan out.
This is the big Libra challenge.
They have to learn to walk out in faith more often.
The good news is the more they exercise what they believe, the more natural it will feel and eventually, they’ll start acting out of intuition more often than not. It’s all about taking that first step.