I guess it can be said that most Scorpio people, the women particularly, don’t really need much tips regarding seductiveness.
It can be fairly said that Scorpio women, whether intentionally or unintentionally, are oozing with seductive appeal.
Mind you, this might not take the form of overly physical seductive appeal.
But that’s beside the point. Anybody with a true grasp of the concept “seductive” would know that being seductive has nothing to do with your body and has everything to do with your attitude.
Seductiveness is a state of mind. You could be 90 years old and grossly overweight and still be seductive.
It really all boils down to the kind of atmosphere, the aura, you create around you.
There’s a sense of mystery, there’s a sense of adventure that just draws men like moths to a flame.
I’m not talking about being slutty. I’m not talking about putting yourself out there like some sort of a cheap woman.
I’m not talking about that at all. I’m talking about the signals that you send out that really rub guys in the best way possible. It arouses their curiosity.
Unfortunately, Scorpio women can get so caught up in the other aspect of their Scorpio personality.Scorpio women can get so caught up in the other aspect of their Scorpio personality.
They tend to give in to extreme emotionality, which short-circuits a lot of their natural seductiveness. This really is too bad.
There’s no need for extreme emotionality. On its strength alone, your Scorpio personality can already turn you into a natural magnet.
This is a good thing because you can attract a lot of guys and be in a position to pick the right one for you. It’s very hard to pick Mr. Right when only two guys are attracted to you.
It’s always good, when making a decision, to have many options.
This doesn’t mean that you have to sleep with all of them. In fact, this could only complicate things.
Instead, you should focus on getting as many options as possible because this increases the likelihood that you will end up with the very best choice.
This is why it looks always a good move to consciously activate your sensuality.
As I mentioned earlier, a lot of emotional issues get in the way of your inborn seductiveness shining through.
The following six tips are more conscious efforts to activate your sensuality.
They serve to override the emotional signals you send out that often short-circuit your natural sensuality.
1 – It’s All About Knowing Yourself Better
The first step is to know yourself better.
Understand yourself, understand what you want, understand how your mind operates and how it is connected to your body.
This might sound simple, or this might sound a little bit grandiose. But the reality is that you need to get down to basics.
People who live overly complicated and dramatic lives are simply people who refuse to give themselves the time and space to get down to basics.
If you get down to basics, you would realize that your life is actually simpler than you make it out to be.
This is probably the best news that will ever come your way because it gives you a lot of control over your situation.
By reducing things to basic principles, you position yourself to making the right decisions at the right time.
Resolve to know yourself a little bit better.
2 – Learn To Send Yourself the Right Signals
Seductiveness and sensuality are often defined as sending off the right signals to third parties.
That’s all well and good, but the whole process actually begins closer to home.
The whole process of actually being a positively sensual person begins with you sending yourself the right signals.
For you to be seductive to other people, you must first be seductive to yourself.
And you can’t be seductive or desirable to yourself if you’re not sending yourself the right signals.
Do you understand how these flow into each other? Do you see how they’re all interconnected?
Resolve to be more conscious about the signals that you’re sending to yourself. You’d be surprised as to how confusing the signals are.
You’d be amazed as to how conflicted, how conflicting, these signals often are.
It all really boils down to consistency.
If you want to be seductive and sensual in the right way, then you need to send yourself consistent signals that get you to where you need to go.
3- Identify Your Most Emotional State
As I mentioned earlier, sensuality is really a state of mind. It’s an attitude.
A lot of people are completely clueless regarding this. They think it’s purely physical.
I need you to wrap your mind around this, so you can do some heavy lifting. The heavy lifting involves imagining yourself in different emotional states.
Which emotional state is the most sensual?
You might have to do some experimentation, but the good news is that this emotional state is so intense that it’s actually very easy to identify as long as you give yourself the time and opportunity to do so.
4 – Identify Scents that Trigger Your Sensual Side
Did you know that the sense of smell actually has a lot to do with the state of physical arousal?
For you to be physically aroused, you must also first be emotionally aroused. These all flow into each other.
This is why it’s a good idea for you to master your own emotional arousal states by figuring out physical triggers like scents.
Different women have different triggers.
Some women are more aural; they like to listen to things. Other women are more olfactory; they need to smell certain things to get aroused. Some women, a minority, are visual; they need to see certain things for them to be aroused.
Regardless of what it is, figure that out and tie that into what I talked about earlier.
5 – Identify Clothing Texture that Triggers Your Sensual Side
Just as some women are triggered by smell, other women are triggered by texture.
I put this in a separate heading because texture is actually quite diverse.
It takes a bit of time to work with clothing texture because there are many other signals at play. There are appearances, there are smells.
So you need to be clear about this to make it work to your advantage.
6 – Understand the Connection between Stimuli, Emotional States, and Your sensual Nature
Understand that how you perceive the world and the signals you get from the world are tied into emotional states.
Your emotional states in turn are tied in to your sensual nature. You need to be aware how all these flow into each other.
You also need to be aware of their boundaries. Once you are clear as to the boundaries and their precise interrelationships, you can increase the amount of control you have on your sensual side.
Truly in control Scorpio women are able to call up their seductiveness at will.
The good news is you can reach that stage, too. It just needs some work and some focus on your part.
- 1 – It’s All About Knowing Yourself Better
- 2 – Learn To Send Yourself the Right Signals
- 3- Identify Your Most Emotional State
- 4 – Identify Scents that Trigger Your Sensual Side
- 5 – Identify Clothing Texture that Triggers Your Sensual Side
- 6 – Understand the Connection between Stimuli, Emotional States, and Your sensual Nature