If you’re a Scorpio, you have high standards when it comes to your relationships. You really do.
Considering the way your personality is put together, you are well within your rights to have these standards.
While there are many Scorpio people with all sorts of personalities and backgrounds, Scorpios tend to share one thing in common.
Scorpios can be defined by their emotional intensity.
It’s no surprise then that Scorpios have historically had a reputation for being revenge seekers.
You don’t like to feel backstabbed. You don’t like to feel betrayed.
You move heaven and earth just to pay somebody back. That’s how vindictive you can be.
If there is any one sign of the horoscope you don’t want to step on, it is the Scorpio. If you do, watch your back.
This is especially true when it comes to emotional matters.
You’re a very intense person when it comes to your love life. This makes you a very loyal person.
But this can also make you very disloyal and destructive. Here are ten telltale signs your relationship is beyond repair.
You Keep Fighting About the Same Thing Over and Over
Don’t get me wrong. It’s okay to fight in a relationship. A relationship is always a work in progress.
You have to remember that if you take two people who come from different backgrounds and different families, there are bound to be misunderstandings.
There are bound to be situations where you don’t see completely eye to eye. Fights are okay.
The problem is that when you keep fighting over the same thing again and again, it means that your relationship has become retarded.
It has reached a certain point and is unable to move past that point. If you notice this pattern, it is a sure sign that your relationship has stopped evolving.
If you put this sign together with other indicators, it means that your relationship is probably over.
Your Partner Has Taken You for Granted
This trouble sign isn’t peculiar to Scorpio relationships. In fact, this applies to any kind of relationship.
Whenever one partner takes another partner for granted, that is a sure sign that the relationship has gone cold.
Again, no one sign or signal is dispositive. You have to look at the broader picture.
If you see many of these signs, then your relationship is beyond repair. Still, if you can tell that your partner has taken you for granted, this is a definite warning sign.
You Feel You’re the Only Emotionally Honest Partner
As I have mentioned earlier, Scorpios are emotionally intense. This is why they give everything they have for their romantic relationships.
This is also the reason why they can make for very loyal friends.
However, if they feel that they’re not getting the benefit of the bargain or they feel that you are not playing it straight with them, they can get hurt.
Worst of all, they can feel betrayed.
It’s very easy for the Scorpio to feel betrayed because their intensity is very hard to match.
Still, if you can realistically tell that your partner is not being emotionally honest with you, this is a serious red flag.
This is definitely a sign that there is something fundamentally wrong with your relationship.
You Feel Like You’re Walking on Eggshells With Him/Her
This is one of the most debilitating aspects of any dysfunctional relationship.
A real relationship means being emotionally and intellectually naked in front of somebody.
This means that you can tell them everything that you’re feeling. This means that nothing is off limits.
However, if you feel that you constantly have to avoid certain topics, then there is definitely something wrong with your relationship.
Either it hasn’t fully matured yet, or it has reached a point where it can’t go any further. Neither of these situations is good.
It is your responsibility to help mature your relationship, or walk out.
There Are Just Too Many Areas In Your Relationship You Can’t Talk About
This goes beyond simply walking on eggshells regarding uncomfortable topics. In this situation, there are more topics you can’t talk about than topics you can discuss.
This is a serious problem because it means that your relationship is just a relationship of convenience.
Maybe it’s just a physical relationship. Maybe there’s some sort of monetary gain at play.
Whatever it is, it’s not a real relationship.
A real relationship means opening each other’s hearts and growing with each other.
And a key part of that is talking about everything and anything. Why?
It means you’re truly comfortable with each other. If you feel that there are just so many areas in your relationship you can’t talk about, it means that your relationship is sick.
You Feel He/She Is Hiding Something From You
There is no space for hiding in any relationship. A real relationship means two hearts becoming one. It means full sharing of yourself.
When you feel that somebody is trying to hide certain information from you, this means that there is something fundamentally wrong with how he/she views your relationship.
In turn, this means that the health of your romantic bond is not all that good.
You Feel He/She Hasn’t Really Gotten Over An Ex-Lover
This is very common. We are all comparative creatures. We make sense of the world based on relationships and comparisons.
If you get a new lover, you often compare that lover with a previous lover. That’s how many people define what’s good or bad.
Unfortunately, if you always compare present relationships with past relationships, you set up unrealistic expectations.
Moreover, you poison your current relationship by holding them up to different standards from the past.
It is not fair by any stretch of the imagination.
If you’re a Scorpio and you feel that your partner is always comparing your relationship to a former relationship, this is a serious trouble sign.
You’re Not Getting Back Even a Fraction of Your Emotional Intensity
While it’s very hard to match the Scorpio’s emotional intensity, the other partner should at least try. That’s all you expect. You just want your partner to try.
You’re not expecting him/her to match your emotional intensity. You just want him/her to show up at the ball park.
Unfortunately, if you feel that you’re not even getting a tiny fraction of what you give out, then it might be a good time to hit the exit.
You Both Talk About the Past More Than You Talk About Your Future Plans
All love relationships flourish at a certain point in time. There is a certain point in time when you see eye to eye and you feel really good about each other.
If you notice that you and your partner talk more about the good times you had in the past than how great your future plans would be, this is a sure sign of trouble.
It means that your relationship has already hit its peak and it’s probably a good idea to hit the exit.
He/She Seems to Be Just Going Through the Motions
The worst partner is somebody who won’t let you go. Seriously.
This person is so emotionally needy and insecure that they would rather hold you into a worthless relationship rather than setting you free.
If you want to be truly happy and you want to truly mature as a human being, you need to let go of unproductive relationships.
However, if this person is just simply going through the motions, then he/she is doing you a big disservice.
He/she is just doing enough to keep you in the relationship, but is not doing his/her part to grow the relationship. These people are emotional leeches, and you need to let go of them.
- You Keep Fighting About the Same Thing Over and Over
- Your Partner Has Taken You for Granted
- You Feel You’re the Only Emotionally Honest Partner
- You Feel Like You’re Walking on Eggshells With Him/Her
- There Are Just Too Many Areas In Your Relationship You Can’t Talk About
- You Feel He/She Is Hiding Something From You
- You Feel He/She Hasn’t Really Gotten Over An Ex-Lover
- You’re Not Getting Back Even a Fraction of Your Emotional Intensity
- You Both Talk About the Past More Than You Talk About Your Future Plans
- He/She Seems to Be Just Going Through the Motions